Is viewing pornography cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend?

[MikeH]

I'm in a very strange mood today.

[Jon Miller]

hmm

get your G/F to try it

Jon Miller

[Sava]

I had an encounter with two girls before... but it wasn't all that exciting. I was 19 and visiting a friend at college. I went with a large group of people, including a girl who would later become my GF for a time, but we were not yet together. Basically, I found myself in a dorm room with her and a girl who lived on that floor. We were all a little drunk (although I was probably the most sober), and ended up fooling around... no penetration because we didn't have any condoms... but there was definite sexual contact (of the Clinton variety ). I'm still holding out for a real three-way session. My current GF is open to the idea (EDIT: with another girl), but we haven't actively explored it. If things ever get boring between us, perhaps we'll try it.

As for you guys, I'm not a fan of putting anything of mine in any whole that poo comes out of...

[loinburger]

Where am I gonna get a second Cheney? **** those tricks.

[Jon Miller]

I agree

Jon Miller

[loinburger]

Originally posted by Sava
I'm still holding out for a real three-way session

A friend of mine had one of those, and said that it wasn't really anything special -- he's only got one Cheney to go around, after all, so one of the girls eventually got bored and left halfway through. You can keep adding quims all you want, but you're never going to pass that single-Cheney limit (without using some radical surgical techniques).

[Imran Siddiqui]

Of course it isn't cheating! Do people fantasize about others? Of course... everyone does, but that isn't cheating. Pornography is basically the same thing (a fantasy aid ). It'd be like saying looking at someone hot in a swimsuit is cheating (because, admit it, you are imagining her naked ).

[Brundlefly]

Re: Is viewing pornography cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend?

Originally posted by Dissident
I had heard something today by someone who said that viewing pornography is wrong if you are married, or seriously involved with someone.

In a way that is partially true. You are having feelings towards someone else you should be having towards your wife.

though I can't say I agree. but I have never been married, so I can't say for sure.

You can never turn off your sex drive. Regardless of your marital status. It is generally accepted that if you act on these sexual feelings while you are in a committed relationship then THAT is wrong. But having those feelings is not wrong, it is normal.

Pornography is a means for escaping reality. Just like drugs, booze, and Civ3. It is misplaced sexual desires. If you are in a committed relationship and need porn to get excited about your mate or use porn instead of having sex then you might need some help breaking free from porn addiction.

[MikeH]

Your girlfriend is probably imagining someone else when you are slipping her the purple headed porridge gun anyway.

Not being able to swear just makes me use non-swear word phrases that I think are ruder.

[Japher]

If you told them you wouldn't then, yes, it is...

Eitherwise it's fine

It's lust not love

If you alone need porn then they aren't doing their jobs

[MikeH]

Disagree.

Different people have different sex drives. If you have ones that match then you are lucky.

[Boris Godunov]

Originally posted by loinburger

A friend of mine had one of those, and said that it wasn't really anything special -- he's only got one Cheney to go around, after all, so one of the girls eventually got bored and left halfway through. You can keep adding quims all you want, but you're never going to pass that single-Cheney limit (without using some radical surgical techniques).

See, this is why gay 3-ways are da bomb. 3 Cheneys! When will you ever see such a thing in a hetero 3-way? Never! And the more you add, the more Cheneys! There is no Cheney limit!

[Sava]

Boris: Do you ever have contests to see who can slap the other with his Cheney and leave a distinct Cheney impression on the face?

[Combat Ingrid]

I suspect Boris likes having sex in a "closed circle"

[Sava]

I want a harem... that's my lot in life.