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**Drake Tungsten** · July 24, 2003, 05:36

So then, what's viewing porn with your wife? Swinging?

I hope so. Makes a menage-a-trois an achievable goal for me.

**MikeH** · July 24, 2003, 05:50

Originally posted by st_swithin WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.

Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

I would say nothing but the truth there normally is something like, "oh well, run out of stuff to say might as well have sex."

**FrustratedPoet** · July 24, 2003, 05:58

Originally posted by Sikander

It's even more distracting when you are masturbating to pornography.

**aaglo** · July 24, 2003, 06:35

Wieving porn isn't cheating.

Just like thinking about work-related issues during a holiday isn't illegal.

**MikeH** · July 24, 2003, 06:36

It should be.

**SlowwHand** · July 24, 2003, 10:17

Dating Rosey Palm and her 5 sisters is with-holding from your girlfriend.
You're a cheater.

**MikeH** · July 24, 2003, 10:21

**Jon Miller** · July 24, 2003, 10:25

first vote for yes!!

Jon Miller

**MikeH** · July 24, 2003, 10:31

Really?

Would whoever voted yes like to defend themselves?

For instance, is it cheating to check out clothed people if you are in a relationship? (something which we all do naturally all the time, there's science to back it up. If so, what's the difference?

What about if they are wearing revealing clothing?

What about if it's a picture that just barely scrapes into what you are allowed to show on 'poly?

Just a bit of nipple OK/not OK?

Is it OK to look as long as you don't touch (yourself)?

**Jon Miller** · July 24, 2003, 10:33

pornography is different than checking out cute girls (clothed or naked)

Jon Miller

**MikeH** · July 24, 2003, 10:35

You don't consider naked girls porn?

**Jon Miller** · July 24, 2003, 10:36

I don't know if it would be cheating or not

but I wouldn't do it

Jon Miller

**Jon Miller** · July 24, 2003, 10:38

Originally posted by MikeH
You don't consider naked girls porn?

they can be

they don't have to be

(same as clothed girls)

Jon Miller

**MikeH** · July 24, 2003, 10:39

You wouldn't look or you wouldn't kill a kitten whilst looking?

**Harry Seldon** · July 24, 2003, 10:39

I think pornography can save relationships. It gives you a chance to "be" with someone else without actually cheating. Some people have an obsession with strange and this is a good way to get the demons out.

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