Is viewing pornography cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend?

[Dis]

I had heard something today by someone who said that viewing pornography is wrong if you are married, or seriously involved with someone.

In a way that is partially true. You are having feelings towards someone else you should be having towards your wife.

though I can't say I agree. but I have never been married, so I can't say for sure.

[Dinner]

I've heard some girls even consider a guy to be unfaithful if he rubs on out by himself every now and then. Isn't that a little insecure? I guy can slack his lizard and still love his wife.

[Dis]

depends on who he is thinking about when he rubs one out

[st_swithin]

WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.

Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

[Saras]

There's a street in London, called St.Swithins lane, isn't there? A few blocks away from Bank tube station?

[asleepathewheel]

Originally posted by st_swithin
WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.

Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

I hate that. My wife does that all the time. She must think I'm brain dead, since there's nothing going on. What am I supposed to say, I was thinking about the baseball scores while she's talking to me? Please.

[Giancarlo]

If I caught my bf in bed with another guy.. yeah it would be cheating.. I don't have a problem with porn.. honestly, me and my bf used to trade one or two pics...

[asleepathewheel]

Yeah, depends on the situation. If you watch porn with your mate then no problem. But sneaking around can get you in trouble.

[Sikander]

Originally posted by st_swithin
WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.

Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

It's even more distracting when you are masturbating to pornography.

[Dinner]

Originally posted by Dissident
depends on who he is thinking about when he rubs one out

Why would it matter? It's a fantasy it's not real. How can something which is not real constitute a real transgration?

[DanielXY]

Well your fantasy is having sex with that other girl. Maybe you would go one step ahead when there is oppertunity and noone watching?

[Giancarlo]

well in fact porn helps a little when I had sex with my mate... he and I took some ideas.. lol..

Never mind! Why am I talking about this....

[Sikander]

Originally posted by DanielXY
Well your fantasy is having sex with that other girl. Maybe you would go one step ahead when there is oppertunity and noone watching?

Have you seen the guys who post here? This isn't an option for the vast majority.

[asleepathewheel]

[Rufus T. Firefly]

So then, what's viewing porn with your wife? Swinging?