I just fear I'm going to become a cog in the system... lose all of my individuality.... it seems I will fight to the death to prevent that lately...
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Hmm.. I guess everyone is interesting in their own way. You just have to find what it is.. This doesn't mean you are like this, but in general: Don't pass judgements on people too fast. Let them have another chance, and then another chance.
If you disagree with people, well that's sweet because what's the point of coming here to talk and everyone agreeing with each other? And if someone disagrees with you, don't take it personally, or make it personal.
Learn the rules of arguing. Making proper arguments, defending your beliefs etc correctly is important because people here tend to get p.o.'d if someone can't follow the basic rules of arguing when in disagreement. It makes the discussion boring and waste of time.
Even when people are kind of anonymous here, you can show some respect to everyone by learning the rules.
Try to answer to everyone in threads if you are making strong points that people disagrees with, and don't disappear without noticing in the middle of heated arguments. And remember that everyone here is human too with feelings.
If you are interested about people here, then you learn things about their personal lives. So you can then try different approaches, like with your real life friends. When people see that you have taken the time and interest to remember something about them personally, then they remember you better too and should be friendlier.
Basically just the basic rules of good behaviour and rules of arguing. That gets you a long way I guess.In da butt.
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Originally posted by Thorn
I just fear I'm going to become a cog in the system... lose all of my individuality.... it seems I will fight to the death to prevent that lately...
As for individuality - some people are "rough diamonds" Thorn - very hard to wear down. But, if we didn't rub off on each other (not just sex - I mean exchange opinions, run chores for each other, help each other, love each other) then life is truly horrible.
At least allow yourself the chance to grow, to be a better person, to improve yourelf. All these things are worth suffering for, if you gain in the end.Some cry `Allah O Akbar` in the street. And some carry Allah in their heart.
"The CIA does nothing, says nothing, allows nothing, unless its own interests are served. They are the biggest assembly of liars and theives this country ever put under one roof and they are an abomination" Deputy COS (Intel) US Army 1981-84
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Originally posted by Albert Speer
Is Thorn the poster formerly known as Evan von Christoph?Some cry `Allah O Akbar` in the street. And some carry Allah in their heart.
"The CIA does nothing, says nothing, allows nothing, unless its own interests are served. They are the biggest assembly of liars and theives this country ever put under one roof and they are an abomination" Deputy COS (Intel) US Army 1981-84
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Originally posted by Albert Speer
What? why is he a gay liberal now?! what happened to the crazy fascist nut?
Some of us, anyway. Not sure about you yetSome cry `Allah O Akbar` in the street. And some carry Allah in their heart.
"The CIA does nothing, says nothing, allows nothing, unless its own interests are served. They are the biggest assembly of liars and theives this country ever put under one roof and they are an abomination" Deputy COS (Intel) US Army 1981-84
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Originally posted by Agathon
Does anyone know what the Post Stats letters in your profile stand for?"I have been reading up on the universe and have come to the conclusion that the universe is a good thing." -- Dissident
"I never had the need to have a boner." -- Dissident
"I have never cut off my penis when I was upset over a girl." -- Dis
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