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  • #16
    I just fear I'm going to become a cog in the system... lose all of my individuality.... it seems I will fight to the death to prevent that lately...
    "Our words are backed with NUCLEAR WEAPONS!"​​

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    • #17
      Hmm.. I guess everyone is interesting in their own way. You just have to find what it is.. This doesn't mean you are like this, but in general: Don't pass judgements on people too fast. Let them have another chance, and then another chance.

      If you disagree with people, well that's sweet because what's the point of coming here to talk and everyone agreeing with each other? And if someone disagrees with you, don't take it personally, or make it personal.

      Learn the rules of arguing. Making proper arguments, defending your beliefs etc correctly is important because people here tend to get p.o.'d if someone can't follow the basic rules of arguing when in disagreement. It makes the discussion boring and waste of time.
      Even when people are kind of anonymous here, you can show some respect to everyone by learning the rules.

      Try to answer to everyone in threads if you are making strong points that people disagrees with, and don't disappear without noticing in the middle of heated arguments. And remember that everyone here is human too with feelings.

      If you are interested about people here, then you learn things about their personal lives. So you can then try different approaches, like with your real life friends. When people see that you have taken the time and interest to remember something about them personally, then they remember you better too and should be friendlier.

      Basically just the basic rules of good behaviour and rules of arguing. That gets you a long way I guess.
      In da butt.
      "Do not worry if others do not understand you. Instead worry if you do not understand others." - Confucius
      THE UNDEFEATED SUPERCITIZEN w:4 t:2 l:1 (DON'T ASK!)
      "God is dead" - Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" - God.

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      • #18
        Hmm my professors always tell me succicent is best.... perhaps I'm taking it to the far extreme?
        "Our words are backed with NUCLEAR WEAPONS!"​​

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        • #19
          Originally posted by Thorn
          Maybe if I stop threating people... and telling them I'm going to chop off their limbs, do you think that would help any?
          Now that's funny. More like this please.
          If I'm posting here then Counterglow must be down.

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          • #20
            Originally posted by Thorn
            I just fear I'm going to become a cog in the system... lose all of my individuality.... it seems I will fight to the death to prevent that lately...
            Very few people are "cogs in the system" with no choice - but also very few can make any choice they want. Always consequences for actions, and often we can't see them. So best to get an idea of what's ahead, and maybe plan towards something we think is worthwhile - some achievement, some dream.

            As for individuality - some people are "rough diamonds" Thorn - very hard to wear down. But, if we didn't rub off on each other (not just sex - I mean exchange opinions, run chores for each other, help each other, love each other) then life is truly horrible.

            At least allow yourself the chance to grow, to be a better person, to improve yourelf. All these things are worth suffering for, if you gain in the end.
            Some cry `Allah O Akbar` in the street. And some carry Allah in their heart.
            "The CIA does nothing, says nothing, allows nothing, unless its own interests are served. They are the biggest assembly of liars and theives this country ever put under one roof and they are an abomination" Deputy COS (Intel) US Army 1981-84

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            • #21
              Is Thorn the poster formerly known as Evan von Christoph?
              "Flutie was better than Kelly, Elway, Esiason and Cunningham." - Ben Kenobi
              "I have nothing against Wilson, but he's nowhere near the same calibre of QB as Flutie. Flutie threw for 5k+ yards in the CFL." -Ben Kenobi

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              • #22
                Originally posted by Albert Speer
                Is Thorn the poster formerly known as Evan von Christoph?


                And you are JUST figuring that out...

                Keep on Civin'
                RIP rah, Tony Bogey & Baron O

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                • #23
                  Originally posted by Albert Speer
                  Is Thorn the poster formerly known as Evan von Christoph?
                  I don't care who Thorn was - I care about who Thorn wants to be.
                  Some cry `Allah O Akbar` in the street. And some carry Allah in their heart.
                  "The CIA does nothing, says nothing, allows nothing, unless its own interests are served. They are the biggest assembly of liars and theives this country ever put under one roof and they are an abomination" Deputy COS (Intel) US Army 1981-84

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                  • #24
                    Cruddy,
                    In da butt.
                    "Do not worry if others do not understand you. Instead worry if you do not understand others." - Confucius
                    THE UNDEFEATED SUPERCITIZEN w:4 t:2 l:1 (DON'T ASK!)
                    "God is dead" - Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" - God.

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                    • #25
                      What? why is he a gay liberal now?! what happened to the crazy fascist nut?
                      "Flutie was better than Kelly, Elway, Esiason and Cunningham." - Ben Kenobi
                      "I have nothing against Wilson, but he's nowhere near the same calibre of QB as Flutie. Flutie threw for 5k+ yards in the CFL." -Ben Kenobi

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by Albert Speer
                        What? why is he a gay liberal now?! what happened to the crazy fascist nut?
                        Believe it or not Herr Speer, people change. They grow up.

                        Some of us, anyway. Not sure about you yet
                        Some cry `Allah O Akbar` in the street. And some carry Allah in their heart.
                        "The CIA does nothing, says nothing, allows nothing, unless its own interests are served. They are the biggest assembly of liars and theives this country ever put under one roof and they are an abomination" Deputy COS (Intel) US Army 1981-84

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                        • #27
                          I've just figured something out, I'd be more likeable if I started talking to the right people... and avoid the asses... I seem drawn to ass-holes.... dunno why, any ideas?
                          "Our words are backed with NUCLEAR WEAPONS!"​​

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                          • #28
                            How do you know how many people are ignoring you? A couple of people said they put me on their list and then quoted me in posts. Bizarre.

                            Does anyone know what the Post Stats letters in your profile stand for?
                            Only feebs vote.

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                            • #29
                              I'm guessing that the HP is the number of times I've been banned, but I'd think it would be more than 65, strange....
                              "Our words are backed with NUCLEAR WEAPONS!"​​

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by Agathon
                                Does anyone know what the Post Stats letters in your profile stand for?
                                This si a question for the community forum. You should go ask there
                                "I have been reading up on the universe and have come to the conclusion that the universe is a good thing." -- Dissident
                                "I never had the need to have a boner." -- Dissident
                                "I have never cut off my penis when I was upset over a girl." -- Dis

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