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  • How I almost got a daughter

    Saw the inlaws today. My wife's sister brought one of her sons and her brother's 3 daughters down to Bangkok.

    Families in Thailand are complicated. Turns out my wife's brother didn't want his daughters at different times when they were little and my wife nearly brought the oldest home when she was was small. My wife helped raise her as a baby. She is now 26. The same with his younger daughters, who have a different mother, now 16 and 11.

    Contrary to popular impressions about Thailand, the girls needed a chaperone to see us in Bangkok. They aren't allowed to go to Bangkok without a relative to look after them. It's a very different world upcountry. Adoption within families are common and not difficult. Children get raised by different people, whoever takes an interest or has the means.
    Any views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..

    Look, I just don't anymore, okay?

  • #2
    why on earth would they need a chaperone?
    I wasn't born with enough middle fingers.
    [Brandon Roderick? You mean Brock's Toadie?][Hanged from Yggdrasil]

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    • #3
      Presumably for their safety, does it also apply to boys?
      If there is no sound in space, how come you can hear the lasers?
      ){ :|:& };:

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      • #4
        Only if they are ladyboys
        With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.

        Steven Weinberg

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        • #5
          If it's anything like here, a chaperone is to protect the girls' (and family) reputation. While we may scoff at this as "needed", if you live in those communities it can cause very real problems if your reputation isn't good.

          Net and I had a chaperone for the first couple years. It's more of a dying practice here (even in one of the more rural areas) though, as society is quickly becoming more liberal.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by self biased View Post
            why on earth would they need a chaperone?
            what Aeson said, good girl and bad girl society.
            Any views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..

            Look, I just don't anymore, okay?

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Aeson View Post
              Net and I had a chaperone for the first couple years.
              like, after you had already been married?
              I wasn't born with enough middle fingers.
              [Brandon Roderick? You mean Brock's Toadie?][Hanged from Yggdrasil]

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              • #8
                Not married yet, so hopefully not ...

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                • #9
                  that's dedication, you shoud do what I did - see her secretly lol

                  which is probably also why the nieces get the close supervision - they don't want to lose any more daughters...
                  Any views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..

                  Look, I just don't anymore, okay?

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                  • #10
                    i still don't understand.
                    I wasn't born with enough middle fingers.
                    [Brandon Roderick? You mean Brock's Toadie?][Hanged from Yggdrasil]

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                    • #11
                      what?
                      Any views I may express here are personal and certainly do not in any way reflect the views of my employer. Tis the rising of the moon..

                      Look, I just don't anymore, okay?

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by BlackCat View Post
                        Only if they are ladyboys
                        Benny Boys in Thailand.

                        ACK!
                        Don't try to confuse the issue with half-truths and gorilla dust!

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by self biased View Post
                          i still don't understand.
                          So they aren't mistaken for the type of girl for which Thailand is infamous.

                          ACK!
                          Don't try to confuse the issue with half-truths and gorilla dust!

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                          • #14
                            Just because they're Buddhists doesn't mean they can't be prudish.
                            "I say shoot'em all and let God sort it out in the end!

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                            • #15
                              Horse, sorry no little mares joined the stable. Good luck.
                              "Just puttin on the foil" - Jeff Hanson

                              “In a democracy, I realize you don’t need to talk to the top leader to know how the country feels. When I go to a dictatorship, I only have to talk to one person and that’s the dictator, because he speaks for all the people.” - Jimmy Carter

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