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    My prostitute ex girlfriend went to the strip club where her old friend who told me about her works and made a scene, provoking her old friend into hitting her. The bouncers and people in the club removed my ex, preventing what ever she planned from happening.

    This morning i get a text message from my ex saying "keep your head up yours will come".

    Now, normally, I would brush this and last night's incident as her being a crazy ***** mad that I told her family about her but I told her family in APRIL. She has waited months to do something about it so I don't know what she has planned. The situation in the strip club was dealt with before whatever she planned occurred (I have no idea but throwing out possibilities... a shooting or stabbing outside when the friend left for example. Anything could have happened).

    Her friend also told me that my ex has, in the past, hired men to attack guys for various reasons. It likely will not matter, but she does have family in the Philly PD (although I don't know how they feel about her since the prostitution exposure) and is sleeping with at least one cop. Who knows if she could have me attacked, have it covered up somehow, or maybe even put me up on false charges for something.

    Should I call the police? Is a text message sufficient evidence for her threatening me? I will call the cops if I see her or any suspicious activity outside my house of course but should I try to pre-empt this?
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  • #2
    buy her an I-pad
    Socrates: "Good is That at which all things aim, If one knows what the good is, one will always do what is good." Brian: "Romanes eunt domus"
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    • #3
      okay i should make this clear, do not post if you're going to be a retarded about things. This is serious. I asked a question about what I should do and if a threatening text message is sufficient to involve the authorities and/or a restraining order.
      "Flutie was better than Kelly, Elway, Esiason and Cunningham." - Ben Kenobi
      "I have nothing against Wilson, but he's nowhere near the same calibre of QB as Flutie. Flutie threw for 5k+ yards in the CFL." -Ben Kenobi

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      • #4
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        Last edited by ZEE; January 1, 2011, 00:47.
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        • #5
          Call the police and ask them if the text is sufficient grounds. I would think so.
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          • #6
            Hire KrazyHorse's wife to take care of things.

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            • #7
              why don't you just tell the mouthy ***** to **** off.

              i mean seriously, stop being such a big girl's blouse.
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              • #8
                Ask her if she likes pandas? Sounds suspiciously like she could be related to Dale.
                Is it me, or is MOBIUS a horrible person?

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                • #9
                  OK, second attempt, if you don't like appeasment - speak with her family, make sure they break her legs before she breaks yours

                  - there is always an option to rely on the nanny state to protect you, but if she has half a brain she will be able to get around that one.
                  Socrates: "Good is That at which all things aim, If one knows what the good is, one will always do what is good." Brian: "Romanes eunt domus"
                  GW 2013: "and juistin bieber is gay with me and we have 10 kids we live in u.s.a in the white house with obama"

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                  • #10
                    While a threatening text may not be grounds for anything, if you contact the police then at least you will have a record that you might have a problem with this person in future. Thats if you want to go down the police route,

                    Seriously though, it sounds like you be best off not having anything to do with her. dont take her calls, dont reply to her texts, dont let her in your house.
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                    • #11
                      Snotty's probably given you the best advice so far in this thread. Even assuming that text is worded strongly enough to press charges with (and I don't think it is), what are you going to get her on? Are you prepared to drag her to court over this, and if so will whatever punishment she gets actually deter her or just get her more pissed off? It sucks, but there's not much you can do about this except keep your eyes open. That's the best advice I can give you without knowing the train-wreck in question.

                      Oh, and obviously, you should never, ever, ever date a stripper again, but I said as much before.
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                      • #12
                        Don't try joining the US armed forces again. You might have to face things rather more intimidating than a small, irate girl, y'know?
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                        • #13


                          Sorry, Albert, but that was funny.
                          Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
                          "Hating America is something best left to Mobius. He is an expert Yank hater.
                          He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead

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                          • #14
                            Cmon guys. This is serious.
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                            • #15
                              An observation? That's all you got? He needs ideas!
                              Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
                              "Hating America is something best left to Mobius. He is an expert Yank hater.
                              He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead

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