Is it possible for a husband to rape his wife?

[ShaneWalter]

Yes, you prefer that she'd be submissive and let you have your filthy way with her. What's truly amazing in all your sophmoronic reasoning is that you've never once considered the woman's point of view.

How do you get that from the post you quoted?

Moreover, given the topic of discussion, what exactly do you mean that he hasn't "considered the woman's point of view"?

[Imran Siddiqui]

It doesn't really matter who's wife Slow was referencing, it's still really low to go after peoples families.

Indeed it is and traditionally has been forbidden at Poly.

FWIW, it sounded like an insult to me and I know that my girlfriend would be horrified if some stranger called her a dominatrix (or future dominatrix, rather).

[ColdWizard]

Horrified? Really? Shall I assume she doesn't use the internet or would that be insulting?

[C0ckney]

to me it sounded like a continuation of sloww's long running joke that kh's wife wears the trousers in their relationship. IIRC other people have also poked fun using this angle in the past. maybe sloww went a bit too far in this case, but it's all pretty mild stuff.

[Al B. Sure!]

http://www.biblestudy.org/question/c...rape-wife.html

Right wing Christian nutjobs say a husband can't rape his wife and if she says he did then that is because she has been deceived by Satan and is being disobedient. You have to love religion.

Did you even read the article you posted?

There are far too many women who use sex as a tool to get their own way with a husband. Sometimes this leads to rape, the husband believing he has the "right" to sex if he is married to a woman. Sometimes it leads to the husband committing adultery with another woman, believing "well, if I can't get it at home, I can get it somewhere else!" All of this is WRONG!

Is there such a thing as a husband raping his wife? YES. Can he take full advantage of her if she is not willing? Because of his strength he can. However, it is not lawful . . . either in this society or in God's eyes.

Talk about disingenuous!

[Imran Siddiqui]

She's not a message board type of person, but I'd imagine most women would be if you told them some random guy on the internet said she was a dominatrix (well, provided that she isn't).

[SlowwHand]

to me it sounded like a continuation of sloww's long running joke that kh's wife wears the trousers in their relationship.

Exactly.

[ColdWizard]

I find it odd that someone would ascribe enough importance to "some random guy on the internet" to be horrified by what was said.

[Al B. Sure!]

Let's not forget the important thing here... KH's wife makes more than him.

[Barnabas]

It is only rape if you want to do her in the ass, if not she should always tolerate at least a quickie, the man also has to be willing whenever the woman wants some dicking, if he is tired, he should let her jump on him

[ColdWizard]

Let's not forget the important thing here... KH's wife makes more than him.

You're right, I had forgotten that. That does change the situation.

[Flubber]

lol!

Anyway I think that, whatever the relationship between a man and a woman be, if she says "no" to sex and he forces her to do it against her will, is rape.
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Obviously

lol!


Of course, there are women that get excited by that and sometimes it's a "consensual rape", but still sexual abuses are possible, even in marriage.

There are people who will roleplay a rape but anyone smart doing this simply has a code word that means to stop so that all other "no" words can be ignored as people get into their roles. The right to withdraw consent always remains.

I would never use the phrase "consensual rape" as I do not see how that can exist. BUt role-play can be a healthy part of a sexual relationship and allow people to test their boundaries

[Heraclitus]

It is only rape if you want to do her in the ass, if not she should always tolerate at least a quickie, the man also has to be willing whenever the woman wants some dicking, if he is tired, he should let her jump on him

See guys this is what a real man says

[Heraclitus]

[MikeH]

Exactly.

To me describing someone as a Dominatrix certainly implies that they are a professional who's paid by men to dominate them, and humiliate them sexually.

So I interpreted it as you saying his wife is basically a whore. I don't think I'm the only one who took it that way.