Do women really enjoy sex?

[b etor]

I've always enjoyed sex, only used it a few times to get something out of it.
Oh and I found another guy who can make me orgasm. He's about average but its curved upward a bit, which is awesome.
I know some girls with zero sex drive. I feel bad for them.

[Sprayber]

after the load is blown, who cares.


Though in practice if you care to blow the load again, you have to actually cares. If you know it is merely a one nighter, than who the hell cares.

[Flubber]

This picture is for those having difficulty listening to Tiamat.

I assume the picture is of tiamat since it would be just rude to give us a glimpse of another woman's cleavage while tia was talking

[Flubber]

after the load is blown, who cares.


Though in practice if you care to blow the load again, you have to actually cares. If you know it is merely a one nighter, than who the hell cares.

Man-- how narrowminded!

you have obviously never had a woman spend like an hour just teasing you beyond belief as a payback for you efforts some other evening. Have you never had a woman say to you "Tonight its all about you"-- Thats the payoff if you actually care enough

[Imran Siddiqui]

It's sorta like getting jacked off then she stops and starts up again and then stops and starts up again and so on and so on and brings you right to the brink and then stops. How frustrating is that?

Someone has never been teased properly

That can actually be great

[MRT144]

When I'm about to blow I usually just twiddle the clit for like 10-20 seconds as I keep going and that's enough to do it most of the time. I've got the timing down pretty tight nowadays.

Timing is everything

[Dry]

Because who doesn't want to feel like they are the most important and special and beautiful person in the world.

I'd say me, until a few years ago.

[MRT144]

Thats why from time to time I like to play a game-- Its called "higher-lower-harder-softer- faster-slower-don't stop"

Tiamat you should take some responsibility too-- Back in the day when I had new lovers I would usually playfully ask the woman to play a game of "Guide me" or "Does this feel good?"-- Done playfully The only thing I have learned over the years is every woman is completely different and you have to be able to learn what makes them feel good-- But if as a guy you have the confidence to ask, the payoff can be tremendous

Heck I met a woman once that stated she had never had an orgasm except with the aid of her vibrating egg. So we incorporated that in our play.

Even after years of marriage I still like to play the "higher lower" gamefrom time to time-- and my wife enjoys it too since she says it gives her control


Oh and tia-- Orgasm denial right before the peak can be AMAZING if you are in the mood for extended play-- its super frustrating if you want it right now but if you are comfortable you will get there eventually the stop start can be teasing

Every woman being different is why I like monogamy. Find one, figure out what works, go with it, be happy.

[Flubber]

Every woman being different is why I like monogamy. Find one, figure out what works, go with it, be happy.

QFT

But on the other side, the exploration of finding out what worked was a LOT of fun. Again its about attitude. If she is playful and willing to try stuff to see what feels good , thats great. If she gets upset if you aren't rocking her world in the first 20 seconds, then there is not likely to be a second date

[MRT144]

QFT

But on the other side, the exploration of finding out what worked was a LOT of fun. Again its about attitude. If she is playful and willing to try stuff to see what feels good , thats great. If she gets upset if you aren't rocking her world in the first 20 seconds, then there is not likely to be a second date

I see it like this; once you establish a baseline of what works nearly 90% of the time, you have more freedom to explore different and new things that are also fun.

[Flubber]

I see it like this; once you establish a baseline of what works nearly 90% of the time, you have more freedom to explore different and new things that are also fun.

While I agree -- I have been with the same woman now for 11 years-- I do sometimes enjoy engaging in some "remember when" nostalgia of what it was like to be with someone new.

[Winston]

Only 7% of women can achieve climax through intercourse?

The same number holds true for male Poly posters.

[Patroklos]

Do women really enjoy sex?

With me? Yes. With you? I'm not so sure.

As to the asking questions bit, I do that quite a bit. However, I find that many times women don't want to entertain such questions and just want us to know. Unfortunetly they can be a lot more technically difficult to please than men and while men are pretty much assembly lines with interchangable parts every women seems to be a custom job completely different from every other. If they are not willing to guide, I am not inclined to press the issue.

[Heraclitus]

Its the best-- I LIKE foreplay-- hell an hour to play before any actual intercourse is amazing--all that teasing is fun both ways and I find that there is a huge payoff usually and I mean huge.

+1

[Heraclitus]

after the load is blown, who cares.


Though in practice if you care to blow the load again, you have to actually cares. If you know it is merely a one nighter, than who the hell cares.

I don't know, I need quite a bit of time to climax so sex has always been more of a game than a "get high" thig for me.


Seriusly, I once told my GF that when I make her *** withouth poking action I feel like I'm playing a video game. (Also I always try to go for the high score )