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Do women really enjoy sex?
I thought they did, which shows how little I know about women.
What's more shocking is that women don't find men sexually attractive? Makes me wonder why I'm spending all this time at the gym. I think I'll just give it up. I don't get it. Why do women watch all these movies with Tom Cruise if they don't find him attractive. I'm missing something here.
And then this article:
Only 7% of women can achieve climax through intercourse? That's an unbelievable statistic. Makes me wonder what god has against women. 
So is that what married life is really like? Your woman only has sex with you so you take out the garbage?
And if women don't really enjoy sex, is it morally right to have sex with them? It seems wrong to me. It seems selfish on the part of the guy to have sex with women.
I have a hard time imagining what it's like to be a woman. I can't blame them for not liking sex. Who wants an object ramming in and out of them for 15 minutes? That can't be comfortable.
For every woman expecting the earth to move, there are two with more practical motives.
From relieving boredom, to keeping the peace or curing a headache, women have sex for many reasons, but romance and passion come rather low on the list, a new book has revealed.
One woman even admitted to having sex just so her husband would take the trash out.
"Research has shown most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all," said the authors of Why Women Have Sex, Cindy Meston and David Buss.
Having apparently discounted physical attraction, the 1,000 women interviewed by the Texas University professors gave a huge range of reasons for sleeping with a man.
One said she did it for a spiritual experience, proclaiming: "It's the closest thing to God."
But mostly the explanations were far more mundane, with 84 percent admitting to having sex just to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for household chores.
"I have sex to relieve the boredom because it's easier than fighting," said one woman in the study. "Plus it gives me something to do."
From relieving boredom, to keeping the peace or curing a headache, women have sex for many reasons, but romance and passion come rather low on the list, a new book has revealed.
One woman even admitted to having sex just so her husband would take the trash out.
"Research has shown most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all," said the authors of Why Women Have Sex, Cindy Meston and David Buss.
Having apparently discounted physical attraction, the 1,000 women interviewed by the Texas University professors gave a huge range of reasons for sleeping with a man.
One said she did it for a spiritual experience, proclaiming: "It's the closest thing to God."
But mostly the explanations were far more mundane, with 84 percent admitting to having sex just to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for household chores.
"I have sex to relieve the boredom because it's easier than fighting," said one woman in the study. "Plus it gives me something to do."
And then this article:
Get out your measuring sticks. Turns out, size may matter – only not in the way most people think.
Surprisingly, a woman’s ease of orgasm may boil down to her own measurements and not his.
New research from Kim Wallen, a professor of psychology and behavioral neuroendocrinology at Emory University, indicates that the distance between a woman’s clitoris and vagina may determine how easily she climaxes from sex alone.
Length and girth have long been considered when it comes to satisfying sexual pursuits. The Kamasutra of Vatsyayana explains “ideal” sexual unions along the lines of size.
Naturally, equal unions are considered best. And over the years, modern couples have questioned the adequacy of his size if sex is “off” or parts don’t fit well together.
But is it really her size that’s throwing things off?
Modern and early 20th Century research indicates that women with a distance of 2.5 centimeters between clitoris and vagina have the best chances of achieving orgasm from sex alone.
“Téléclitoridienne,” a term meaning “female of the distant clitoris,” was first studied last century. According to “Bonk: The Curious Couple of Science and Sex,” the term was coined in the 1920s by Princess Marie Bonaparte, the great grand niece of Napoleon. This psychoanalyst was considered a sex researcher in her own right.
Unhappily married to George of Greece, a latent homosexual, and suffering from anorgasmia (lack of orgasm), after a number of affairs, Marie worried that she was “frigid” and wanted scientific proof.
So she came up with an anatomical theory that women with the lengthiest distance span between their clitoris and vagina (that of more than 2.5 centimeters) were rendered incapable of climax during intercourse.
To prove her hypothesis, Bonaparte interviewed and measured 243 females in 1924 that were incapable of having an orgasm during intercourse. Working with doctors, she actually measured these women, finding that 21 percent of the sample fell into the téléclitoridienne category.
The 69 percent of women in her sample who could have orgasms during sex had significantly smaller distances between sex organs. These women, referred to as paraclitoridiennes, could almost always climax from sex.
Bonaparte also found a correlation between a woman’s height and the closeness of her sex organs. This was namely that shorter women tended to have shorter spans.
Wallen analyzed Bonaparte’s measurements with modern statistical techniques and found she just might be right.
Wallen estimates that the most easily attainable orgasms from sex are attributed to clitoris-vagina distances that are about the size of a thumb. Anything over that is likely to require a little more technical assistance, which it seems the vast majority of lovers will require.
In researching the matter himself, Wallen’s preliminary findings show that no more than approximately 7 percent of females consistently reach climax from sex alone.
Surprisingly, a woman’s ease of orgasm may boil down to her own measurements and not his.
New research from Kim Wallen, a professor of psychology and behavioral neuroendocrinology at Emory University, indicates that the distance between a woman’s clitoris and vagina may determine how easily she climaxes from sex alone.
Length and girth have long been considered when it comes to satisfying sexual pursuits. The Kamasutra of Vatsyayana explains “ideal” sexual unions along the lines of size.
Naturally, equal unions are considered best. And over the years, modern couples have questioned the adequacy of his size if sex is “off” or parts don’t fit well together.
But is it really her size that’s throwing things off?
Modern and early 20th Century research indicates that women with a distance of 2.5 centimeters between clitoris and vagina have the best chances of achieving orgasm from sex alone.
“Téléclitoridienne,” a term meaning “female of the distant clitoris,” was first studied last century. According to “Bonk: The Curious Couple of Science and Sex,” the term was coined in the 1920s by Princess Marie Bonaparte, the great grand niece of Napoleon. This psychoanalyst was considered a sex researcher in her own right.
Unhappily married to George of Greece, a latent homosexual, and suffering from anorgasmia (lack of orgasm), after a number of affairs, Marie worried that she was “frigid” and wanted scientific proof.
So she came up with an anatomical theory that women with the lengthiest distance span between their clitoris and vagina (that of more than 2.5 centimeters) were rendered incapable of climax during intercourse.
To prove her hypothesis, Bonaparte interviewed and measured 243 females in 1924 that were incapable of having an orgasm during intercourse. Working with doctors, she actually measured these women, finding that 21 percent of the sample fell into the téléclitoridienne category.
The 69 percent of women in her sample who could have orgasms during sex had significantly smaller distances between sex organs. These women, referred to as paraclitoridiennes, could almost always climax from sex.
Bonaparte also found a correlation between a woman’s height and the closeness of her sex organs. This was namely that shorter women tended to have shorter spans.
Wallen analyzed Bonaparte’s measurements with modern statistical techniques and found she just might be right.
Wallen estimates that the most easily attainable orgasms from sex are attributed to clitoris-vagina distances that are about the size of a thumb. Anything over that is likely to require a little more technical assistance, which it seems the vast majority of lovers will require.
In researching the matter himself, Wallen’s preliminary findings show that no more than approximately 7 percent of females consistently reach climax from sex alone.
So is that what married life is really like? Your woman only has sex with you so you take out the garbage?
And if women don't really enjoy sex, is it morally right to have sex with them? It seems wrong to me. It seems selfish on the part of the guy to have sex with women.
I have a hard time imagining what it's like to be a woman. I can't blame them for not liking sex. Who wants an object ramming in and out of them for 15 minutes? That can't be comfortable.
The problem with men is you are usually so wraped up in your own orgasm that you don't take time for the women much less most of you can't even find her clitoris. Then when you actually do your fingers either get worn out or you'll find the spot then move your fingers and go all around it but never get it. Which I can tell you from experience pisses your girl off and they usually just quit because their so mad. Sound familiar. Ever been trying to have sex and she just stops and acts pissed off....this would be why because YOU MISSED THE SPOT!!
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