Damn, it's my turn to make the biggest decision of my life.

[Docfeelgood]

Frosty Boy, how would you feel if a girl did the same to you?

Was like "I don't really love this person, but I might not be able to find any better and they have wealthy parents and will give me a house/etc...".

JM

I can tell you have never dated a Jewish women.

[FrostyBoy]

Frosty Boy, how would you feel if a girl did the same to you?

Was like "I don't really love this person, but I might not be able to find any better and they have wealthy parents and will give me a house/etc...".

JM

I do get it. It's not the now that I am questioning. I am questioning the future.


From some of the experienced posters here, it seems the attraction doesn't die out.

[KrazyHorse]

You've stated that you already don't feel anything for her. That you're not attracted to her.

Leave her now. As in, immediately.

I've been with my wife for 9 years, married for 3. There is no reason to get married to a woman who you obviously don't love.

[Lancer]

You live life once and nothing is free. Walk away now.

I'll add to that, don't be married to a girl you don't love when you meet a girl you do.

[Zevico]

And don't forget to hide the body afterwards.

[Dinner]

Try to rekindle the magic you had when you first started dating but if after that you still feel nothing then be true to yourself and break it off.

[Dinner]

BTW picts would be helpful.

[Mint]

Would she be up for threesomes? The answer to this question could determine the rest of your life.

[Zevico]

BTW picts would be helpful.

How so?

[Lancer]

[Dinner]

If that's his girlfriend then he should definitely dump her.

[MikeH]

What? You can't even see behind that helmet.

[Elok]

How so?

They would hit Frosty repeatedly with their war-hammers while shouting "you're not David Floyd" in Pictish.

[rah]

While I somewhat agree with the general concensus her, I do want to point out that there are a lot of people that get married in the world that weren't in "LOVE" due to arranged marriages or ones of convience or for material gain. While I wouldn't guess the percentage of success quite a few of those couple do have a successful marriage after they have lived together for a time. Yes looks and lust can fade but for some the friendship and companionship grows and eventually produces a love that is stronger. I loved my wife when we got married but it wasn't the "true love" that people like Ben talk about. But now after 20 years she has become my soul mate and best friend and I couldn't imagine getting old with anybody else.

So if people wait for the Ultimate Love, they may bypass their true soul mate and end up alone.

[St Jon]

While I somewhat agree with the general concensus her, I do want to point out that there are a lot of people that get married in the world that weren't in "LOVE" due to arranged marriages or ones of convience or for material gain. While I wouldn't guess the percentage of success quite a few of those couple do have a successful marriage after they have lived together for a time. Yes looks and lust can fade but for some the friendship and companionship grows and eventually produces a love that is stronger. I loved my wife when we got married but it wasn't the "true love" that people like Ben talk about. But now after 20 years she has become my soul mate and best friend and I couldn't imagine getting old with anybody else.

So if people wait for the Ultimate Love, they may bypass their true soul mate and end up alone.

Would any other woman allow you to spend Saturday nights playing a computer game with your mates? You're a lucky man Rah.