I just walked up to the corner store to pick up some milk and oatmeal. A few suspicious looking characters turned and walked away from the direction I was headed in. Random not-so-clean people were seemingly going out of their way to say "good morning sir". The workers at the store all called me sir, other people were smiling at me and saying good morning.
I have gone up to that same store dozens, if not hundreds, of times, nobody has ever called me sir before. Except one man who works there. I think he only calls me sir for the same reason I call him sir, it's the appropriate way to address a stranger.
The difference? I've been lifting weights again, but only for the past month or so, so there isn't a very noticeable difference yet. My hair is cut much shorter than it was before, I have a buzzcut now rather than a styled cut. I also killed my beard and sideburns last night (may they rest in peace).
I can only think of two explanations. One, I am more approachable, but wtf was my beard not "sir" worthy? Two, I look like a cop.
Is there another possible explanation I am not considering?
I have gone up to that same store dozens, if not hundreds, of times, nobody has ever called me sir before. Except one man who works there. I think he only calls me sir for the same reason I call him sir, it's the appropriate way to address a stranger.
The difference? I've been lifting weights again, but only for the past month or so, so there isn't a very noticeable difference yet. My hair is cut much shorter than it was before, I have a buzzcut now rather than a styled cut. I also killed my beard and sideburns last night (may they rest in peace).
I can only think of two explanations. One, I am more approachable, but wtf was my beard not "sir" worthy? Two, I look like a cop.
Is there another possible explanation I am not considering?
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