Female sex drive

[Jon Miller]

It is true that people want to be whores and pimps now. This wasn't the case even 20 years ago.

I remember Samuel L Jackson on TRL (MTV) saying that pimps weren't cool. You could tell that everyone was like 'how old is this guy?'

JM

[Supr49er]

... 25 is actually really old...

Yeah, ancient.

[Lorizael]

Perhaps I am too old for this thread? I mean, it's been 10 years since I was 15 and acting like an immature teenager, so of course I must be in a totally different category from the rest of the people posting in this thread. I always forget how even though I feel really young, 25 is actually really old...

Nah. Poly's become gentrified. 25 puts you smack dab in the middle for this thread and maybe even a little on the young side for the OT as a whole.

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Perhaps I am too old for this thread? I mean, it's been 10 years since I was 15

Christ, yes. You're older than God.

[Cartimandua]

Sarcasm is lost on you people

[b etor]

My gf said that ideally she would like it three times a day. How much of it do the partners of male polytubbies want it? Ideally I would prefer first hand accounts but there are few girls on poly... though I'm sure AC will not be able to resist posting.



Also how openly do you talk about your sex life and/or fantasies with your partner? I *think* I've finally managed to get her to be completley hones with me, I tried really hard to ensure that she wouldn't think I'd judge her or anything... I was suprised, a lot actually, by some of the things she's told me. I never realised women think about sex as much as men do (they also seem to have a better imagination).

My partner and I talk very openly, although he gets embarrassed by some things he wants to try and refuses to tell me them for a while, but then we end up doing them and it's lots of fun so he's getting better at not holding stuff back.
I wouldn't see him that often, since I'm not supposed to be seeing him at all [lol dad lol]. But I'd be over at his house for 2-6 hours at a time and we'd do it twice most of the time, occasionally once or thrice. Now I won't be doing it at all since I gave up all things sexual for Lent since I have a really hard time saying 'no', and since my father has found out about him and I am forbidden from seeing him again and no longer have my cell phone.
If I saw him every day of the week I'd want it at least twice a day.

[Alinestra Covelia]

Actually when I started dating my 2007 boyfriend, he came over and we made plans to go out with my roommate and SO to see a movie.

But he came up to my bedroom and then I basically jumped him. We did it a load of times and then had a nap and then woke up and did it again a load of times and then had another nap. We were debating whether we should go for a trifecta when my roommate tapped at my door and said we'd been in there for four hours and we'd already missed two showings of the film and should they go without us?

We said yes and then started doing it all over again.

Obviously that wasn't a pace that we could keep all the time (and then it only worked timewise for me because I was on a school break from law school), but it does go towards explaining the structural fatigue that set in. Eventually the right-side bottom leg snapped clean off my bed and when I moved out I had to confess it to my landlord and pay a small fee to get it fixed. But up until then I just shoved a load of New Yorkers under it and it was fine.

Usually when I was doing it with my boyfriend, I'd have one-and-a-half or two climaxes to each of his one. That may be unusual for women too.

[Alinestra Covelia]

BBC news story about doubts over a female sex patch and whether it actually does anything.

There is a sentence that I liked. To give you some context, the writer is trying to say that some of the women in the test runs may have had a normal sex life to begin with. This is what they said:

In some instances women reported having sex up to three times a month before the trials - raising questions over whether they had a poor sex drive at all from the outset.

(Emphasis mine.)

[Cartimandua]

So, at my last job I was working with a woman who was about 45 and had been married for about 20 years. At the time I had only been married about 5 months, and my secretary had been married a little over a year. So this woman came in one day talking to my secretary and I about a relationship presentation she and her husband had gone to the night before. The presenter had said that couples who have sex at least once a month will have a closer emotional bond (I say duh!). She then proceeds to tell us the conversation she and her husband had on the way home. She asked him if they could try to have sex at least once a month and he flat out said, "No, I don't think so, I think we are okay."

Apparently she was very distraught over this as she was seeking consolation and probably wanted us to say that we don't have sex very often either. However, my secretary and I just looked at each trying to hide our surprise, and said we were very sorry. Once she had left my office, my secretary turns to me and says, "Doesn't she realize that we are still newlyweds?! The only problem we have is trying to get done everything we are supposed to in between having sex as much as possible!"

Poor woman....

[Kidlicious]

BBC news story about doubts over a female sex patch and whether it actually does anything.

There is a sentence that I liked. To give you some context, the writer is trying to say that some of the women in the test runs may have had a normal sex life to begin with. This is what they said:



(Emphasis mine.)

Good Lord. I'm glad I don't date normal women.

[Sirotnikov]

So, at my last job I was working with a woman who was about 45 and had been married for about 20 years. At the time I had only been married about 5 months, and my secretary had been married a little over a year. So this woman came in one day talking to my secretary and I about a relationship presentation she and her husband had gone to the night before. The presenter had said that couples who have sex at least once a month will have a closer emotional bond (I say duh!). She then proceeds to tell us the conversation she and her husband had on the way home. She asked him if they could try to have sex at least once a month and he flat out said, "No, I don't think so, I think we are okay."

Apparently she was very distraught over this as she was seeking consolation and probably wanted us to say that we don't have sex very often either. However, my secretary and I just looked at each trying to hide our surprise, and said we were very sorry. Once she had left my office, my secretary turns to me and says, "Doesn't she realize that we are still newlyweds?! The only problem we have is trying to get done everything we are supposed to in between having sex as much as possible!"

Poor woman....

Guys rarely get too tired for sex.

My guess is she is likely being cheated on.

[David Floyd]

Or unattractive. Which, yes, you're probably right, on second thought.

[Fake Boris]

You really don't need to be a cynical and manipulative predator to get a girlfriend.

Not necessarily manipulative, but cynical can help.

[Fake Boris]

And BTW, I'm a bit with DF on this.

We've had this discussion quite often, but I have to say that I never scored as much as when I behaved like a total ass to women.

The point, actually, is to use that strategy to score as much as possible. Once you've found one that you think desserves to be treated nicely, you can start being partially nice.

[Solomwi]

Guys rarely get too tired for sex.

My guess is she is likely being cheated on.

QFT.

If he doesn't think once a month is doable, it's because he's getting it somewhere else.