I have trouble reaching an orgasm

[Q Classic]

Stop having sex for about three months, let everything build up. Then try again.

[duke o' york]

Try getting her to help get you there, even if that means with her hands.

And stop thinking of Margaret Thatcher to prolong your stamina!

[chequita guevara]

It's the masturbation. You are accustomed to the feeling and the rhythm of your hand. Try doing it slow and with your other hand.

This is key.

[Kuciwalker]

[chequita guevara]

Suddenly I have a craving for pickles.

[Dis]

ugh, I didn't need to see that second picture.

I never had much problem alone. At first I as nervous around women, so that made it difficult. I found a couple beers helped relax me. .

occasionally I'll have problems even when I'm alone. Sometimes I can't let myself relax. Which brings to mind a song.

Oh oh
Wee-ell-Now!

Relax don't do it
When you want to go to it
Relax don't do it
When you want to come
Relax don't do it
When you want to come
When you want to come

Relax don't do it
When you want to to go to it
Relax don't do it
When you want to come
Relax don't do it
When you want to suck to it
Relax don't do it
When you want to come
Come-oh oh oh

But shoot it in the right direction
Make making it your intention-ooh yeah
Live those dreams
Scheme those schemes
Got to hit me
Hit me
Hit me with those laser beams

I'm coming
I'm coming-yeah

Relax don't do it
When you want to go to it
Relax don't do it
When you want to come

Relax don't do it
When you want to suck to it
Relax don't do it (love)
When you want to come
When you want to come
When you want to come
Come-huh

Get it up
The scene of love
Oh feel it

Relax
Higher higher

Hey-
Pray

[Alinestra Covelia]

I once had a boyfriend who was just like this. He had no problem making himself come, but when he was with me, nothing I could do would make him come. We later found out the problem was the condom, which stopped most of the sensation for him.

Once we got rid of the condom and I went on the pill, he enjoyed it a lot more. In fact, the first time we tried it, he lost control and went berserk. After a few months of never seeing him finish, I can tell you it was very gratifying for me too.

Dunno if that helps your condition, but it's worth a try. There were times even after losing the barrier contraceptive that my then-bf wouldn't be able to finish, but some guys are just like that. Even oral couldn't help him. (This is actually not that uncommon with women, or so I've heard - I don't suffer from it myself.)

Different people respond to different things. If you're finding the condom kills the sensations for you, see if she's willing to go on the pill and then go at it bareback. Much nicer for her, too!

[Berzerker]

sandpaper the end of yer d***

j/k


the boy is complaining about lasting 3 hours

And I thought this would be an old man cant get it up anymore thread

[Dis]

ya condoms definately cut sensation. But sometimes you gotta have em. So you def. don't want to jerk off before hand.

and well if you are circumsized, that definately reduces sensation. Not much you can do about it except cuss out your parents.

[-Jrabbit]

Not much you can do about it except cuss out your parents.

Rarely has that helped me.

[CrONoS]

Donate your balls to science

[Combat Ingrid]

I seem to recall a slovenian movie about a guy who could only orgasm if he was watching porn...
Maybe it was actually a documentary about your life?

[Combat Ingrid]

Found it

http://www.emotionfilm.si/pornofilm/okvir.html

[Combat Ingrid]

As for your trouble: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electroejaculation

[Dis]

doesn't sound as fun as the normal way.