Do I have any chance to resist a 21 yr old hottie?

[Gibsie]

If I have learnt anything from TV, it's that if you go for her, and then cut her off when her crazy gets too much, she'll be back for your son. Is that what you want? Cos that's what'll happen.

[Elok]

This would advice would actually be somewhat reasonable if it wasn't for the fact that 1) she's alcoholic & bipolar, 2) you live next door, 3) you have qualms against ****ing up people's lives more than they already are (which depends on how you're pursuing this- i.e., getting her drunk so you can get laid).

As it is, unless you like the idea of your son being around crazy and learning that women are cumdumpsters for men to manipulate, AND you can afford to move when not if the **** hits the fan, don't (any more).

Poor sentence construction aside, I agree totally. Also, I'm not certain that he could move far enough away to escape the wrath of a bona fide Crazy***** (TM) who's been jilted.

Just a few possible scenarios that occurred to me in the past half-hour:

*Chick shows up at Kid's place of work (which is a school, IIRC!) screaming and throwing a fit about how he did dirty things to her
*Chick bones some largish dude she meets somewhere else, starts talking crap about Kid to him, gets him and several of his Frigidaire-sized pals to rough up Kid
*Chick gets knocked up (by Kid or someone else) and files paternity
*Chick rolls herself down the stairs, goes to the police and says Kid did it with a rolling pin
*Chick tells Kid's kid about the terrible things daddy did to her while crying uncontrollably
*Chick goes for broke and hangs herself in Kid's house while he's away

Now, all of those possibilities assume she will follow the "Sylvia Plath" victimhood school of vindictive craziness. It strikes me as most likely, given her bipolarity and gender--a bipolar man would be more likely to beat the snot out of Kid himself. However, we need to bear in mind that we are talking about a triple threat here: it's unwise to take ANY woman lightly, but one who suffers random, violent mood swings and is dependent on a mood-altering substance? The sky's the limit. She could do something more like Tiamat's "son-in-law" Pond Scum, wrecking or stealing his property. Or she could get a gun, or something more pedestrian. And he doesn't even have to consciously jilt her for her to get nasty; she's bipolar, and has the amazing power to read offense into anything. Plus she is quite likely to mess up his life just by being in it, without trying at all.

In conclusion, Kid needs to wake up and realize what an awe-inspiring screwup he has committed, and extricate himself veeery gently and tactfully from the relationship. Assuming he can. BE AFRAID, Kid.

[Theben]

Poor sentence construction aside,

Bah, it was 2 am. Be glad the spelling was okay.

[Lorizael]

My advice to you, Kid: Given that there is a small but non zero probability that intercourse with this woman may result in the propagation of your genetic material, I woulds strongly advise against that course of action.

[Supr49er]

I think you know what you have to do.
Tempting as her body may be, the consequences will hit you hard.
Let your ego be stroked (and ONLY your ego) that she's interested.

[chequita guevara]

I have a very important guideline in my life, never invite crazy into my life. With one exception, I've never had good results from ignoring that rule.

[Blaupanzer]

Other than for Mobius trolling, this has been a reasonable discussion. May I suggest what Kid already knows? Many bipolars use sex to create and cement relations in their mind as they race from desperately sad to bank-balance-blowing happy. The addiction (alcohol in this case) blocks any chance of gaining control on the underlying disorder. It's often a defense forthe question: "Why don't you take your lithium, et al, and rejoin the rest of us?" Under these circumstances she is, in her mind, sinking her hooks in you without having to get well enough to run in the circles her beauty would permit. Later, her looks will shift to "that alkie look" and she will blame you for letting her waste her best years hiding from herself.

That's the good outcome! Get out! First get some pictures, so you can tell yourself as you grow older that you could attract a woman that hot! Then get out! Alternative endings include insanity, permanent injury, death for 1 to 3 people. Run!!!

How old is your son?

[DaShi]

Do whatever you want? You're going to die anyway, so enjoy it. Your son will die sometime to, so there won't be any long term damage.

[-Jrabbit]

I have a very important guideline in my life, never invite crazy into my life. With one exception, I've never had good results from ignoring that rule.

And how is Bunnygrrl? Say hi for me.

[MOBIUS]

Other than for Mobius trolling, this has been a reasonable discussion.

Trolling? WTF? I'm just not afraid to call him for what he is - a lowlife scumbag...

All he gives a **** about is that he's boning some hottie. Some small darkened recess of his shrunken 'think-with-his-dick-first' brain realises he's doing something wrong - but mostly he's just here to boast that he's gettin' sum!

But hey, that's called trolling to actually give a **** about Kid's victim in all this...

**** you, Kid!

[Darius871]

Anyway, Kid. You shouldn't be asking for relationship advice here. The resident site relationship guru, MRT144, is no longer actively posting.[/B]

Is Spec still around?

Spec.

[Kidlicious]

There's one thing I should have mentioned. I like her, not just for sex either. Her bipolar isn't that bad, but her drinking is very bad. She takes various pills also. The other night I ****ed her while she was on exstacy. God damn, I can't remember better sex!

Here's the bad thing. I have to take her keys and money from her when she gets too ****ed up. I will probably end up going back to alanon, because I know I'm ****ing up but I can't help myself. She's too hot.

[Kidlicious]

Am I the only one who finds it revolting to kiss a woman whose breath smells like beer?

You can have great sex without kissing, but drunk people generally turn me off.

I usually have a few drinks myself.

[Kidlicious]

Other than for Mobius trolling, this has been a reasonable discussion. May I suggest what Kid already knows? Many bipolars use sex to create and cement relations in their mind as they race from desperately sad to bank-balance-blowing happy. The addiction (alcohol in this case) blocks any chance of gaining control on the underlying disorder. It's often a defense forthe question: "Why don't you take your lithium, et al, and rejoin the rest of us?" Under these circumstances she is, in her mind, sinking her hooks in you without having to get well enough to run in the circles her beauty would permit. Later, her looks will shift to "that alkie look" and she will blame you for letting her waste her best years hiding from herself.

That's the good outcome! Get out! First get some pictures, so you can tell yourself as you grow older that you could attract a woman that hot! Then get out! Alternative endings include insanity, permanent injury, death for 1 to 3 people. Run!!!

How old is your son?

Good post. Thanx. He's 10.

[Kidlicious]

*Chick tells Kid's kid about the terrible things daddy did to her while crying uncontrollably

Oh God not that one. Daddy is an alcoholic too. That's just what I know about him so far.