Do I have any chance to resist a 21 yr old hottie?

[MOBIUS]

I've been seeing this woman who is half my age (just about). This is the first time that I've done this, and I never expected it. She's the one who came on to me.

Now here's the thing. She's bipolar and an alcoholic. For those of you who don't know, my exwife is bipolar and she got addicted to meth (off now). I even went to alanon in California. I didn't think I was attracted to alcoholic/addict types but now I'm starting to rethink that. I know this is wrong but truthfully I can't imagine myself rejecting this woman. I don't know if I have the strength.

So basically you ply her with booze and she lets you **** her?

[Darius871]

So basically you ply her with booze and she lets you **** her?

What, is there any other way?

[Kidlicious]

That goes with the territory when you date alcoholics. I wish she were sober but she's much better in bed drunk.

[SlowwHand]

I've been seeing this woman who is half my age (just about). This is the first time that I've done this, and I never expected it. She's the one who came on to me.

Now here's the thing. She's bipolar and an alcoholic. For those of you who don't know, my exwife is bipolar and she got addicted to meth (off now). I even went to alanon in California. I didn't think I was attracted to alcoholic/addict types but now I'm starting to rethink that. I know this is wrong but truthfully I can't imagine myself rejecting this woman. I don't know if I have the strength.

You don't have a white horse to use in your rescue. Do you understand what I mean?

[Kidlicious]

yep

[MOBIUS]

I was just querying if he is blatantly taking advantage of her vulnerable state?

And he has just admitted he is...

I'm guessing if she were sober Kid wouldn't stand a chance...

[Kidlicious]

Mobius,

As usual you seem to have no idea what people are talking about.

[ricketyclik]

My mother is a severe bipolar sufferer, with substance abuse issues.

As a youth I tended to fall in to relationships with waifs who came from broken homes, and who usually had substance abuse issues.

I ended up marrying a very quiet girl, who, 16 years and 3 kids later, appears to be a depressive - ie, she is never happy.

For a long time I've thought my problem is that I am attracted to vulnerable women, ie, a sort of a knight in shining armour complex. I guess I still think that. Whenever female friends or acquaintances show signs of vulnerability, bang, I am attracted to them. Perhaps from a childhood of being an emotional prop to my (usually single) mother.

However, lately my marriage has shown signs that it may fail, and I have resolved that if it does, my next partner will be a well-adjusted, secure individual.

I suggest you do the same Kidicious.

[Kidlicious]

My mother is a severe bipolar sufferer, with substance abuse issues.

As a youth I tended to fall in to relationships with waifs who came from broken homes, and who usually had substance abuse issues.

I ended up marrying a very quiet girl, who, 16 years and 3 kids later, appears to be a depressive - ie, she is never happy.

For a long time I've thought my problem is that I am attracted to vulnerable women, ie, a sort of a knight in shining armour complex. I guess I still think that. Whenever female friends or acquaintances show signs of vulnerability, bang, I am attracted to them. Perhaps from a childhood of being an emotional prop to my (usually single) mother.

However, lately my marriage has shown signs that it may fail, and I have resolved that if it does, my next partner will be a well-adjusted, secure individual.

I suggest you do the same Kidicious.

Thank you. That has been my plan since my marriage went bad.

[Barnabas]

Am I the only one who finds it revolting to kiss a woman whose breath smells like beer?

You can have great sex without kissing, but drunk people generally turn me off.

[MOBIUS]

Occupational hazard for Kid - it's the only way he can get laid...

[The Mad Monk]

Cut off your dick and take care of your child.

[Traianvs]

Am I the only one who finds it revolting to kiss a woman whose breath smells like beer?

You can have great sex without kissing, but drunk people generally turn me off.

When sober, yes. However, if a woman is drunk in my presence, I'm most probably completely legless myself so in fact she's the one to worry about beer breath. In any case when drunk one doesn't really notice it. If all else fails, mints are a viable option.

[-Jrabbit]

Kid, I've thought about it, and you need to run, fast, away from this situation.
Moving across town pre-emptively might be the wisest course.

[Straybow]

This thread it useless without pictures!