Oh and of course I've totally been there before in Hera's place, and it did hurt, but everyone here who says focussing on someone who doesn't want to be with you stops you meeting someone you might be compatible with is totally right.
In my case I think there could even have been an aspect of focussing on someone I knew I couldn't have in order to avoid the issue of going out to find someone more suitable. Once I got over the whole thing I realised girl #1 wasn't as amazing as I'd convinced myself of anyway.
Anyway I 3rd or 4th the nomination to get out, meet other girls, date them if possible and see how it goes.
And don't ask for advice about what to say to her here. Be yourself, and if that's not what she's into it's the wrong girl.
I know this **** hurts though, so
for that.
In my case I think there could even have been an aspect of focussing on someone I knew I couldn't have in order to avoid the issue of going out to find someone more suitable. Once I got over the whole thing I realised girl #1 wasn't as amazing as I'd convinced myself of anyway.
Anyway I 3rd or 4th the nomination to get out, meet other girls, date them if possible and see how it goes.
And don't ask for advice about what to say to her here. Be yourself, and if that's not what she's into it's the wrong girl.
I know this **** hurts though, so
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