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    Freaky accidental English incest story.

    Parted-at-birth twins 'married'
    A pair of twins who were adopted by separate families as babies got married without knowing they were brother and sister, a peer told the House of Lords.

    A court annulled the British couple's union after they discovered their true relationship, Lord Alton said.

    The peer - who was told of the case by a High Court judge involved - said the twins felt an "inevitable attraction".

    He said the case showed how important it was for children to be able to find out about their biological parents.

    Details of the identities of the twins involved have been kept secret, but Lord Alton said the pair did not realise they were related until after their marriage.

    'Truth will out'

    The former Liberal Democrat MP raised the couple's case during a House of Lords debate on the Human Fertility and Embryology Bill in December.

    "They were never told that they were twins," he told the Lords.

    "They met later in life and felt an inevitable attraction, and the judge had to deal with the consequences of the marriage that they entered into and all the issues of their separation."

    He told the BBC News website that their story raises the wider issue of the importance of strengthening the rights of children to know the identities of their biological parents.

    We are naturally drawn to people who are quite similar to ourselves
    Pam Hodgkins
    Adults Affected by Adoption

    "If you start trying to conceal someone's identity, sooner or later the truth will out," he said.

    "And if you don't know you are biologically related to someone, you may become attracted to them and tragedies like this may occur."

    Pam Hodgkins, chief executive officer of the charity Adults Affected by Adoption (NORCAP) said there had been previous cases of separated siblings being attracted to each other.

    "We have a resistance, a very strong incest taboo where we are aware that someone is a biological relative," she said.

    "But when we are unaware of that relationship, we are naturally drawn to people who are quite similar to ourselves.

    'Incredibly rare'

    "And of course there is unlikely to be anyone more similar to any individual than their sibling."

    Mo O'Reilly, director of child placement for the British Association for Adoption and Fostering, said the situation was traumatic for the people involved, but incredibly rare.

    "Thirty or 40 years ago it would have been more likely that twins be separated and, brought up without knowledge of each other," she said.

    Today, however, adopted children grow up with a greater knowledge of their birth families - and organisations try to place brothers and sisters together.

    If that were not possible, the siblings would still have some form of contact with each other.

    "This sad case illustrates why, over the last 20-30 years, the shift to openness in adoption was so important," Ms O'Reilly added.
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    Pam Hodgkins, chief executive officer of the charity Adults Affected by Adoption (NORCAP) said there had been previous cases of separated siblings being attracted to each other.


    How the **** do you get NORCAP from Adults Affected by Adoption?
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    • #3
      Were they from Norfolk, by any chance? :curlytails:

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Lorizael
        Pam Hodgkins, chief executive officer of the charity Adults Affected by Adoption (NORCAP) said there had been previous cases of separated siblings being attracted to each other.


        How the **** do you get NORCAP from Adults Affected by Adoption?
        Poor hygiene, probably.
        THEY!!111 OMG WTF LOL LET DA NOMADS AND TEH S3D3NTARY PEOPLA BOTH MAEK BITER AXP3REINCES
        AND TEH GRAAT SINS OF THERE [DOCTRINAL] INOVATIONS BQU3ATH3D SMAL
        AND!!1!11!!! LOL JUST IN CAES A DISPUTANT CALS U 2 DISPUT3 ABOUT THEYRE CLAMES
        DO NOT THAN DISPUT3 ON THEM 3XCAPT BY WAY OF AN 3XTARNAL DISPUTA!!!!11!! WTF

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        • #5
          I wonder how long they were married. Did the courts annul their marriage regardless of their wishes?

          That must be tough, happily married a couple years and then BAM its all over. Sure there is a taboo for good reason, but what a mind ****
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          • #6
            I wonder if they planned on having children. If not, I don't actually see any problem with them being married.
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            • #7
              Did the courts annul their marriage regardless of their wishes?
              yes they would have. 'marriages' of this sort are deemed to be void, that is to say, never to have taken place, in the eyes of the law. other examples of void marriages would include things like bigamy.
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              • #8
                I could just see the massive difficulties with future relationships coming out of this.

                Councilor: So what do you think is the root cause of your relationship difficulties?

                Twin: Well... I was abandoned by my birth parents and then ended up unknowningly marrying my sister after we'd been ****ing for 3 years.

                Councilor: (Drops pen and note book.)

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                • #9
                  This could be even more bizarre, at least they were not identical and same sex .

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                  • #10
                    Truth is stranger than fiction sometimes. Charles Dickens is probably in the corner taking notes.

                    Would you blame these folks for sticking together despite the annulment?
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by DanS
                      Would you blame these folks for sticking together despite the annulment?
                      Nope. I've heard at least one similar story before, but that was "only" normal sister/brother adoption & later meeting/dating thing.

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                      • #12
                        So never marry somebody with the same birth date as you just in case!
                        Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny, consume you it will, as it did Obi Wan's apprentice.

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                        • #13
                          lol @ GV
                          You just wasted six ... no, seven ... seconds of your life reading this sentence.

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                          • #14
                            Actually, a lot of voluntary incest occurs between people who didn't know each other growing up. A lot, in this case, being a relative term. (Drum roll please!)
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                            • #15
                              Talk about your rim shots!
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