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I met a girl 1 month ago at my workplace; she's a receptionist working in the Telecom department of my university (where I actually work for my summer job).
We took our lunch together since the day I invited her to hang with me. Since she was new, I show to her many place of the university. And we also began to hang together after the jobs; but just walking and talking around the university.
A special link began to appear between us, I rediscovered innocence, love, complicity. I ask her if she had a boyfriend (before inviting her for a drink). She said yes; I said: "O.k., I know what's are my limit now."
The next day; she said while I was talking;" Is that correct what we are doing?" She seemed to have mixed feeling between her boyfriend and myself. I said to her; "If you love him, all we do is o.k., otherwise, ask yourself some questions". And I conclude that we can't be friends, I said to her; whatever the "term" that we use to define our relation, the "chemistry" of two people are not bound by concept and limits that we impose on ourselves. But I said that we we will keep our relation as coworker. I don't want her to drop her boyfriend for me... If she want to drop him, she must do it for herself... even if girl rarely do this.
But we are more than coworker... we always hang together(at the workplace), we always have some sort of physical contact while we walk during our lunch (by touching the shoulder while talking, trying to kindly hit the other, by walking close to each other), she kindly try to mock me(which is always funny and sometimes show that the others people try to create a reaction on your side), she ask me a lot of question about any subject, we laugh, we are joyfully walking, exploring together.
Together we are playing like kids; we are exploring each corner of any building of the university (I have special key to go anywhere) So I bring her to some cool place (but forbidden place). Like the top of a seminary that it's now used as a building to give class, so we can look at the scenery together. I have a mini electric car to travel across the underground tunnel of the university; so I drive her, while she sat right next of me. Even if it's forbidden... We are like kids.
But, she have a boyfriend, and she live with him.
She is going to work in another building in another department next week.
I don't know where I'm going with her; but I know one thing, I do enjoy my ride right now! Even if I don't think she will become my girlfriend.
I met a girl 1 month ago at my workplace; she's a receptionist working in the Telecom department of my university (where I actually work for my summer job).
We took our lunch together since the day I invited her to hang with me. Since she was new, I show to her many place of the university. And we also began to hang together after the jobs; but just walking and talking around the university.
A special link began to appear between us, I rediscovered innocence, love, complicity. I ask her if she had a boyfriend (before inviting her for a drink). She said yes; I said: "O.k., I know what's are my limit now."
The next day; she said while I was talking;" Is that correct what we are doing?" She seemed to have mixed feeling between her boyfriend and myself. I said to her; "If you love him, all we do is o.k., otherwise, ask yourself some questions". And I conclude that we can't be friends, I said to her; whatever the "term" that we use to define our relation, the "chemistry" of two people are not bound by concept and limits that we impose on ourselves. But I said that we we will keep our relation as coworker. I don't want her to drop her boyfriend for me... If she want to drop him, she must do it for herself... even if girl rarely do this.
But we are more than coworker... we always hang together(at the workplace), we always have some sort of physical contact while we walk during our lunch (by touching the shoulder while talking, trying to kindly hit the other, by walking close to each other), she kindly try to mock me(which is always funny and sometimes show that the others people try to create a reaction on your side), she ask me a lot of question about any subject, we laugh, we are joyfully walking, exploring together.
Together we are playing like kids; we are exploring each corner of any building of the university (I have special key to go anywhere) So I bring her to some cool place (but forbidden place). Like the top of a seminary that it's now used as a building to give class, so we can look at the scenery together. I have a mini electric car to travel across the underground tunnel of the university; so I drive her, while she sat right next of me. Even if it's forbidden... We are like kids.
But, she have a boyfriend, and she live with him.
She is going to work in another building in another department next week.
I don't know where I'm going with her; but I know one thing, I do enjoy my ride right now! Even if I don't think she will become my girlfriend.
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