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Yeah, like this is the best place to ask advice...
Anyway, I've talked to this girl, it seems we always bump into each other in the same parties and bars, so we've come to knwo each other a bit. Strictly in parties though, not outside. But we e-mail each other and sometimes call on weekends, should we be in the same place partying again. I like her, she's nice. I mean I don't really know her that much, but we've talked a lot and I like talking to her, plus she's pretty. That's a good start, eh?
So anyway, in the last few times we've talked, I've sensed that I might like her more than as a party friend, so I've started to talk to her about other things. She's been interested, but it all stopped when I said I'll be moving in few months. I mean that's fine, what was I expecting... but the point is, I'm moving once again, and I should be moving around the world in a year or so and do quite a bit traveling. I'd like to have more of a relationship at this point in my life. My plans allow it now
. But the problem is, I'm moving and soon I'll be moving on a constant basis. It's not one nighters I'm looking for, it's someone I can really relate and love, so... and people say, well, if you find someone that really likes you, it doesn't matter if you're on the move all the time. Maybe, but it's difficult to find someone who would like me so much that they'd be ready to follow me or wait me long periods of time and make that commitment fast. It's a turn off basically.
So while I'm moving a lot, I find myself pretty lonely. I have fast food friends, get one fast, move fast again. It's cool in the way that I can go to many places and I have good friends there, but it's kind of tough to always start from the scratch alone. This would be so much easier if I had a relationship, I mean easier mentally. Something solid and that's just always there.
I'm extremely busy and about to get even busier. So... of course these are excuses, but they are also true in a sense that I have very little free time to find girls and I'm not going to last in one place for a long time so it's difficult to establish something meaningful and solid.
This used to be totally OK. But it's starting to be kind of not OK. So what should I do?
I also look for a lot of things in a girl, some of them can be looked over, but not everything. Someone who is intelligent (not just hey I can file my tax report, no, I mean intelligent) and can get along with me is a big challenge. Perhaps another career person, so they'd have things to do anyway, so the fact that we're all busy doesn't really matter yet. It's not the sex part that is bothering me, I can have one nighters for sexual consumption, it's more mental mode and company that I'm missing.
Anyway, I've talked to this girl, it seems we always bump into each other in the same parties and bars, so we've come to knwo each other a bit. Strictly in parties though, not outside. But we e-mail each other and sometimes call on weekends, should we be in the same place partying again. I like her, she's nice. I mean I don't really know her that much, but we've talked a lot and I like talking to her, plus she's pretty. That's a good start, eh?
So anyway, in the last few times we've talked, I've sensed that I might like her more than as a party friend, so I've started to talk to her about other things. She's been interested, but it all stopped when I said I'll be moving in few months. I mean that's fine, what was I expecting... but the point is, I'm moving once again, and I should be moving around the world in a year or so and do quite a bit traveling. I'd like to have more of a relationship at this point in my life. My plans allow it now
. But the problem is, I'm moving and soon I'll be moving on a constant basis. It's not one nighters I'm looking for, it's someone I can really relate and love, so... and people say, well, if you find someone that really likes you, it doesn't matter if you're on the move all the time. Maybe, but it's difficult to find someone who would like me so much that they'd be ready to follow me or wait me long periods of time and make that commitment fast. It's a turn off basically. So while I'm moving a lot, I find myself pretty lonely. I have fast food friends, get one fast, move fast again. It's cool in the way that I can go to many places and I have good friends there, but it's kind of tough to always start from the scratch alone. This would be so much easier if I had a relationship, I mean easier mentally. Something solid and that's just always there.
I'm extremely busy and about to get even busier. So... of course these are excuses, but they are also true in a sense that I have very little free time to find girls and I'm not going to last in one place for a long time so it's difficult to establish something meaningful and solid.
This used to be totally OK. But it's starting to be kind of not OK. So what should I do?
I also look for a lot of things in a girl, some of them can be looked over, but not everything. Someone who is intelligent (not just hey I can file my tax report, no, I mean intelligent) and can get along with me is a big challenge. Perhaps another career person, so they'd have things to do anyway, so the fact that we're all busy doesn't really matter yet. It's not the sex part that is bothering me, I can have one nighters for sexual consumption, it's more mental mode and company that I'm missing.
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