Originally posted by Jon Miller
I don't know you well enough to know which you are (gay or straight). But probably if we chatted a bit... I would probably know.
At one point I was convinced that there were Bi people, even though I had never personally met one. But then the people who convinced me turned out to be one or the other (generally gay).
I am refering to intrinsic gayness or straightness, which many currently don't think exists (but the social groups that think like this are highly hedonistic).
I don't know you well enough to know which you are (gay or straight). But probably if we chatted a bit... I would probably know.
At one point I was convinced that there were Bi people, even though I had never personally met one. But then the people who convinced me turned out to be one or the other (generally gay).
I am refering to intrinsic gayness or straightness, which many currently don't think exists (but the social groups that think like this are highly hedonistic).
Personally, I don't think the there's an intrinsic nature so much; perhaps a genetic predisposition, but there's some level of nurture that goes into it.
And depending on how important your intrinsic sexuality is (in your make up), you can be happy in a relationship that goes against it. (There are examples of intrinsic gays who were in happy straight relationships... I have heard of intrinsic straights being in happy gay relationships)
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