Does Anyone Else Feel This Way?

[Wiglaf]

I am starting to wonder if perhaps I am clinically depressedy ways?

[SlowwHand]

WTF is that reference to me doing in there? Don't be sucking me into you ineptitude.

Don't worry, it gets worse. Women are always women. I

[Wiglaf]

Originally posted by SlowwHand
WTF is that reference to me doing in there? Don't be sucking me into you ineptitude.

Don't worry, it gets worse. Women are always women. I

I understand why people think you are my DL. You are on me like white on rice, yeehaww.

I think that my insecurities with women will not get any worse than they are, honestly.

[reds4ever]

If you find your GF boring and you don't like sex then what the hell are you doing with her?

The only reason for having a boring girlfriend is because she's good in the sack.

[Wiglaf]

Originally posted by reds4ever
If you find your GF boring and you don't like sex then what the hell are you doing with her?

The only reason for having a boring girlfriend is because she's good in the sack.

Fear of dumping her and having no one , being alone. Fearful of that.

[snoopy369]

1) unrelated to depression generally (many/most depressed people would cling to a girlfriend regardless of any other issues)

2) sounds good to me, large groups of people are annoying

3) Lots of girls don't like large groups either, it's just harder to meet them The eye contact thing, well, that's just a bit extreme perhaps

4) Plenty if not most girls are fine with this or happier even than otherwise Again, maybe you're hanging out with the wrong crowd?

5) You're judgmental, but hate other people judging you. Perhaps you're judgmental as an preemptive attack on people judging you?

Disliking/being anxious of people's judging you is common, and I think is probably related to some depression-esque minor mental disorders (do you ever have anxiety attacks?). You're not weird, but it might be worth considering some therapy to work on the anxiety. Were your parents very judgmental, or expect a lot out of you? That's commonly the root cause of this, or else bad experiences with childhood peers.

That said, I get the strong feeling that you're not hanging out with the right people. If you're post-school, I'm not sure how to go about *finding* the right people, as that's where I found my people so to speak ... but there are a lot of people out there who like being in small groups at best, don't like doing things that require large crowds, and are not judgmental

[SlowwHand]

Nah, Wiggy. Sex can be rented, it's the feeling that makes it special. It will happen. Always happens.

[Wiglaf]

That's encouraging snoopy, I appreciate that ; I'm in graduate school actually. I had college friends but it took me 1.5 years to find the really good ones. With them not around, my new "friends" aren't quite as good, I feel more anxious around them a bit...

Dunno. Yes I definitely have bad anxiety attacks very often (just freak out and lock myself away for a few days, posting on APolyton at some times)

[Wiglaf]

Originally posted by SlowwHand
Nah, Wiggy. Sex can be rented, it's the feeling that makes it special. It will happen. Always happens.

MOst people don't think that way, from what i've seen. Most are looking for the "random hookup."

Or at least, enjoy it when in between relationships

[SlowwHand]

Cool avatar, Wigmeister.

[Wiglaf]

I'm going to replace this piece of **** shortly

I am so blind w/o glasses/contacts I thought it was the washington monument

[SlowwHand]

Still a good one.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Re: Does Anyone Else Feel This Way?

Originally posted by Wiglaf
I am starting to wonder if perhaps I am clinically depressed, but I want some opinions on what you interpret this condition as being.


1) I am bored with my girlfriend , granted, she is boring

Get a new doll.

2) I tend to shy away from large crowds. There is something about me that DOES NOT want to be judged by other people. So for instance I would rather spend time with any of my four close friends RATHER THAN go to a party of 15-20 people. I get freaked out by large numbers of people.

It's because your friends don't know you well enough.

3) Girls, ek. the few I have managed to get engaged into have sort of thought my reticence is "cute"....but most are obviously not into that so I have hard time with girls. I don't like looking them in the eye..or most other people, in large part because I wonder how they perceive me

Embrace your inner homosexuality.

4) I do not feel sexually empowered. I am not old, I am in early 20s so It is not like I have the Slowwhand syndrome. I am simply not as interested in sex. I want relationship more.............this may be another reason I am uncomfortable with most people...they are all about SEX.

It's because all the girls are saying no.

5) I am very judgmental and find most people stupid, and I ABSOLUTELY HATE PEOPLE who do the usual formalities - like smiling at stuff that isn't funny, or hugging people when they see them and saying "OMGosh it's been like so long" and I dislike everyone like that.

They dislike you too, so that's cool and stuff.

I think I am just anxious but does anyone else just feel like they're unlike the rest of humanity in a lot of ways?

Most of us are space aliens.


If you need anymore advice, I'm here

[Wiglaf]

You spend your time on an internet radio show that no one listens to, Imran. You are in no position to out-cool me, douche bag

[Imran Siddiqui]

Originally posted by Wiglaf
You spend your time on an internet radio show that no one listens to, Imran. You are in no position to out-cool me, douche bag

The fact that I do out cool you while doing said internet podcast (get the terms right at least), is an even greater indictment on your 'coolness' .