Relationship advice needed

[Arrian]

Originally posted by Dis


I never clean out my inbox. . But of course, I have no reason to. At least not till it fills up.

sounds like this girl has some serious trust issues...

Gee, I wonder why?

SHE WAS RIGHT.

-Arrian

[Dis]

Originally posted by Brundlefly


Good advice, except for one problem: While I was ****ing multiple girls, I had no problems having great sex with her (and the other girls). Now that I've committed to her as my only girlfriend, I frequently lose my erection during sex...

I don't think that's the kind of embarrassing detail you want to reveal on an internet forum. .

I've never had that problem. Can't help you out there. The problem is I get an erection too easily and it doesn't go away.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Arrian


Gee, I wonder why?

SHE WAS RIGHT.

-Arrian

yeah she was right. If it bothers her that much, she just won't want to see him again. Time to move on.

[Lorizael]

But that, of course, you should reveal on the internet.

[Elok]

Ah, that's it! Just explain to her that you were only telling lies in the hope of making it grow bigger, like Pinocchio! "I did that for you, baby."

[Dis]

This is a funny thread. No offense to anyone hurt over this whole thing of course.

[Japher]

tell her the whole truth

you knew she wasn't going put out that night so you arranged it so you'd get some on V-day

[Vince278]

Originally posted by Dis


This is a funny thread. No offense to anyone hurt over this whole thing of course.

Its funny that anyone would come here for relationship advice.

[Wiglaf]

Claim you are still dating girl #2. Make her compete

[Urban Ranger]

Well, there are two things you can do:

1. Be honest and come clean.

2. Play a mind game. Don't initiate any contact. Wait until she calls you.

[DaShi]

Or hr could post his problems on a gaming forum and hope to get some banal platitudes.

[Brundlefly]

Originally posted by Vince278


Its funny that anyone would come here for relationship advice.

Why? People come here to exchange ideas about politics, philosophy, and sports so why not relationships, too? The one or two people who have spammed this thread are the usual suspects from any thread and I dont care about their comments.

However I think most of the posters in this thread have given good advice and were sincere in their replies even when they were taking jabs at me... I dont care about getting flamed as long as you can back it up with a good reason...

[Brundlefly]

Originally posted by Dis


I don't think that's the kind of embarrassing detail you want to reveal on an internet forum. .

I dont care. What do I have to lose?

[Vince278]

Originally posted by Brundlefly
I dont care. What do I have to lose?

Nothing now. Sounds like you already lost it on the first post.

[yin26]

You're not ready for commitment -- your flagging member makes that clear. Honestly, you're at a point in your life when you need to play the field. There is NOTHING wrong with that. What would be wrong is in trying to convince this girl (and yourself) that you ARE ready...when you're not.

Tell her you're very sorry, that she deserves more respect than what you showed, but that you only now realize that you need to date more people (in an honest, open manner) before thinking about tying yourself down. Some women will run from this immediately. Fine. Saves time. Other women will convince themselves that they can be in that kind of relationship without getting attached...but they always do get attached. The trick there is to cut it off right away when they have lost it by saying: "I'm sorry, but I was always honest with you. It's been great, but I wouldn't feel right seeing you any more."

And if that advice doesn't get you, I defer to Mr. Miyagi of Karate Kid Fame:

"Left side of tracks...safe. Ride side of tracks...safe. Middle of tracks...SQUASH...like a grape!"

So, my friend, get off the middle of this track. You'll eventually become that one woman guy that the angelic voice in your head is trying to push you to become, but that day is long off yet. Embrace this fact and have fun.