How many red flags do you have?

[chequita guevara]

It is not true that men don't change.

[Verres]

Lol, yes, quaint like a scottie dog in a little coat. It's naff and stupid but if you had one you'd make it wear one too.

(Pekka, you send me the lingere, I wear it, yes?)

[Mr. Harley]

With an offer like that - if I wasn't married...

[Az]

Lol, yes, quaint like a scottie dog in a little coat. It's naff and stupid but if you had one you'd make it wear one too.

That's so wrong... I certainly don't want the woman I am with to have flaws, that is, things that are flawed in my mind. One's confidence in oneself, shouldn't be based, and usually isn't based on the people that surround them, and their internal qualities, but on how other people interact with them.

That is, nothing wrong with being with miss perfect - The problem is if she's an arrogant ***** - and then she ain't that perfect, is she?

[Pekka]

Verres, oh yeah, that sounds a lot better. I know some nice ones. We start with the catsuits and move on to some kinkier stuff. Also you better make the resolution higher, so I can print posters.

[duke o' york]

We've got a picture thread Pekka!

I only got halfway through, and managed possibly 1/2. It depends what particular women consider stupid hobbies - I mean, I play pooty games, and am currently getting absolutely nowhere with a hot girl who loves gaming () so that can't be true for all women. I also play badminton (pretty well actually ), and I know that would be considered sissy by the women who hang round the rugger buggers, but that's probably a good thing for me too.

[lazy gag]I once got a red flag for going too fast in the pit lane. [/bloody awful gag]

[Pekka]

yes but they are intimate pics.

[Adrian Hon]

Originally posted by Az

He sits in the car, honking the horn, or starts to drive away, while you are still in the house/apartment, trying to get ready to go out. He knows you aren't ready yet, but he goes out to the car anyway. He gets angry and frustrated if you aren't ready the instant HE is. Your life is expected to run on HIS schedule.

Hell yeah. Stupid *****es shout wear their ****ing makeup faster. It's not MY ****ing schedule, it's A schedule.

QFT

[Provost Harrison]

I have very, very few of those flags. Of course, I am a bit of a wildcard at the moment

[Colonâ„¢]

Now there's a list you should ignore. Many are sensible enough, but quite a few are also shallow and intolerant. Because a man likes collecting or because he doesn't have many friends he can't be a good partner? Whoever drew that list looks like a judgemental ***** to me.

[Datajack Franit]

I like having dates, but because gays are a bunch of homosluts I never had such problems

[Az]

Man, you gay people have all the fun.

[Dr Strangelove]

Yeah, about that #54, does she have any proof that psychotherapy helps at all? It's been shown by study after study that psychotherapy/ behavioral therapy is virtually worthless except in the treatment of a few disorders such as simple phobias. Really she's condemning a segment of the population to loneliness and isolation. Furthermore it should be pointed out that women can also be abusers and that women who were abused as children also often become abusers.

I wonder why she left out gimps and cripples? It must have been an oversight.

[Rufus T. Firefly]

One definitely, two possibly; I'll vote two to be sure.

But regarding rebounds: I met my wife while my then-7-year-relationship was in its death throes, and started dating her only a month after my ex moved out; my wife, for her part, was not yet divorced and had only been legally separated for 4 months or so. So we were both on the rebound -- and have been together for 13 happy years. I just don't buy that 1.5 year time limit.

[:) Smiley]

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