Oi women are teh confusing. 'Poly women mind translating for me?

[boann]

Originally posted by Last Conformist

Cuddling is neither spiritual nor emotional - it's physical.

wrong wrong wrong wrong
did i say wrong
cuddling is not just physical
and that is the whole issue


we are defining cuddling as just holding each other
no kisses , no fondling in sexual places..
just comfort holding... or hugging.
or maybe im misunderstanding the term

[Last Conformist]

Holding one another is about as physical as human interaction gets!

[KrazyHorse]

It's a physical act. Just because it has emotional ramifications means ****-all. So does sex.

If you are an attractive female and you "cuddle" a man he will get aroused. Simple as that.

[boann]

and i was thinking about how the word
friendship is defined...

i think of a friend as a person i like hanging out with.
someone i like to talk to about things...
someone i go places with... enjoy being with.

i don't consider a friend someone i just know.
maybe know their name or someone i work with.
someone i say hi to in passing... even chat with online.
this to me is just being an aquaintance..
being a friend is something much deeper than just knowing who they are.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Originally posted by boann
wrong wrong wrong wrong
did i say wrong
cuddling is not just physical
and that is the whole issue


we are defining cuddling as just holding each other
no kisses , no fondling in sexual places..
just comfort holding... or hugging.
or maybe im misunderstanding the term

Hugging isn't cuddling! Cuddling is holding each other for a while (over 10 minutes at least), whether in a 'spoon position' or otherwise.

[KrazyHorse]

**** that cuddling ****. If I wanted to have sex with a girl and she started to "cuddle" me she'd run smack into my full blown erection and me fondling her tits and kissing her neck.

That's just how I roll.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

I dont see a thing wrong with cuddling if ur just friends. Looks as though most of you guys seem to beleive this is all bout sex when it really doesnt have to be. As Boann said its about being comfrtable enough to just lay there watching tv or talking with no sexual inenudo going on. Now on the other hand, now that I am married again, i dont think tubes woud find it ok f i was to cuddle with my best friend who happens to be male as well. I woud how ever sit with him and hold his hand if he needs a good friend.

[boann]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
It's a physical act. Just because it has emotional ramifications means ****-all. So does sex.

If you are an attractive female and you "cuddle" a man he will get aroused. Simple as that.

well that maybe true about getting aroused.
but you're not an animal.. you don't have to act on
the impulse every time your body reacts...


you hug your mother don't you..
don't you hug your brother and sister.
its no different to hug a friend.
sometimes you can't help how your body reacts
but you can help what you decide to do about it.

[boann]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
I dont see a thing wrong with cuddling if ur just friends. Looks as though most of you guys seem to beleive this is all bout sex when it really doesnt have to be. As Boann said its about being comfrtable enough to just lay there watching tv or talking with no sexual inenudo going on. Now on the other hand, now that I am married again, i dont think tubes woud find it ok f i was to cuddle with my best friend who happens to be male as well. I woud how ever sit with him and hold his hand if he needs a good friend.

i agree with you on that...
being married changes the whole concept
and being caring about your partners feelings.
but i was assuming they were just talking in general
about single friends..

[KrazyHorse]

but you're not an animal

Yes I am.

[boann]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse

but you're not an animal

Yes I am.

no doubt

[Last Conformist]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
I dont see a thing wrong with cuddling if ur just friends.

I can.

Looks as though most of you guys seem to beleive this is all bout sex when it really doesnt have to be. As Boann said its about being comfrtable enough to just lay there watching tv or talking with no sexual inenudo going on.

Being comfortable doesn't require cuddling.

[KrazyHorse]

Yeah, and why do you think there should be jealousy involved if it's "purely nonsexual"?

Bullcrap. If some hot girl starts rubbing up against me and I sit there like a ***** and take it without making a move then my balls are going to be swollen up like grapefruits and I'm going to get righteously pissed off.

Making somebody your cuddle ***** is the female version of guys making booty calls to girls they'd never date......

[Agathon]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui


Hugging isn't cuddling! Cuddling is holding each other for a while (over 10 minutes at least), whether in a 'spoon position' or otherwise.

Imran on the metaphysics of cuddling.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Now on the other hand, now that I am married again, i dont think tubes woud find it ok f i was to cuddle with my best friend who happens to be male as well.

There you go. Obviously you know that it means far more to men than just being close friends.

you hug your mother don't you..
don't you hug your brother and sister.
its no different to hug a friend.
sometimes you can't help how your body reacts
but you can help what you decide to do about it.

Um.. once more:

Hugging is NOT cuddling

Cuddling is holding someone for a long time, whether in a spoon position or whatever. It may be something you do with your mom, but never a sibling (ewww)

you're not an animal.. you don't have to act on
the impulse every time your body reacts...

You have much to learn about men