How do you tell if a girl is interested in you?

[Urban Ranger]

@ Markos

[Frankychan]

BINGO! No loss, unless she's the only one you go to...but then just say 'f*** it'.

[MarkG]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger
Yeah, it's a rather established practice here too.

you people are crazy! do you also give tips at web developers?

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by MarkG
you people are crazy! do you also give tips at web developers?

Only if she's cute

[Dis]

this whole dating scene gives me a headache.

[MarkG]

well that makes sense, but just a bit

[MarkG]

Originally posted by Dissident
this whole dating scene gives me a headache.

just wear a t-shirt (preferably an apolyton one, chicks dig them!) saying "i'm availiable, my phone number is 555-000-555"

whether or not your phone ever rings, you wont have any headaches!

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Dissident
this whole dating scene gives me a headache.

Don't think, just go ahead and do it.

[Last Conformist]

Lose your keys and ask if you can sleep over at her place.

[Alexander's Horse]

And indeed there will be time
To wonder, “Do I dare?” and, “Do I dare?”
Time to turn back and descend the stair,
With a bald spot in the middle of my hair—
[They will say: “How his hair is growing thin!”]
My morning coat, my collar mounting firmly to the chin,
My necktie rich and modest, but asserted by a simple pin—
[They will say: “But how his arms and legs are thin!”]
Do I dare
Disturb the universe?
In a minute there is time
For decisions and revisions which a minute will reverse.

For I have known them all already, known them all:—
Have known the evenings, mornings, afternoons,
I have measured out my life with coffee spoons;
I know the voices dying with a dying fall
Beneath the music from a farther room.

So how should I presume?

And I have known the eyes already, known them all—
The eyes that fix you in a formulated phrase,
And when I am formulated, sprawling on a pin,
When I am pinned and wriggling on the wall,
Then how should I begin
To spit out all the butt-ends of my days and ways?

And how should I presume?

And I have known the arms already, known them all—
Arms that are braceleted and white and bare
[But in the lamplight, downed with light brown hair!]
It is perfume from a dress
That makes me so digress?
Arms that lie along a table, or wrap about a shawl.
And should I then presume?
And how should I begin?

[Agathon]

Horsie should have been a pair of ragged claws...

[DaShi]

Did she ask for a pearl necklace?

[Provost Harrison]

Tell me about is Diss, tell me about it...

[child of Thor]

Originally posted by Ted Striker
Really no one way to tell.

The most obvious ones I know of are:

1) She is all into you and she is laughing at the stupidest things that you say.

Ted: "I'm going to do laundry tonight."

Chick: "OMG LOL!!!111 Too funny!"

2) She's very nervous around you and can't look at you, she'll talk to all your friends but can't really sneak a look at you without being embarrassed.


Another girl will always be able to tell right away though if another girl likes you.

The first point in particular is a big give away - she'll be all big 'take me home' smiles too.

and i'll add:

3) when things are looking bleak(like no action for a while), then play the 'numbers' game. And like Dis already mentioned, if you see someone you like then just try to talk to them and if it goes ok then ask them out.

The numbers game can be a hard one. I did it for a year one time and worked out i only had a 10% success rate!! Still that 10% was all i was interested in( ), so it was worth all the put downs and rejections

You develope tough skin too, which can help later on with seeming cool under pressure when dealing with the opposite sex.

[Gibsie]

Last time I got my hair vut the girl was very nice and friendly, and she kept sticking her boobs in my face. Was she flirting with me? I dunno, I don't need to work out whether each and every girl I meet is interested in me, just if I'm interested in them