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I don't have problems with my immediate family; I mean as a kid my older sister and I didn't get along and both of my parents drank more then was good for them, but, I am happy to say that in the last years of her life my mother reformed and made a real honest effort to stop drinking. My father still drinks to much but I haven't lived with him for years so it doesn't really effect me in any way. The real reason I'm writing this thread is because of my adopted cousin. My aunt and uncle adopted her and her younger brother when they were 3 and 2 respectively because they could not have children of their own and they thought they had this perfect little family.
It turns out that both of their biological parents were big drug addicts and their biological mom used cocaine all throughout both of their pregnancies. In the end police found my new born male cousin and his 12 month old sister locked in a car without any adult in sight. When police broke into the car they found both of them were dehydrated and had diapers which had been dirty for a day or two, Their biological parents had had seven kids before them and all had been taken by the state because they were such worthless drug addled **** bags.
In any event my aunt and uncle were not told about the prenatel drug abuse until well after they had adopted. That meant they had already bonded with the two kids by the time they found out both were severally screwed up by their biological mother's drug abuse. The result is they have tried very hard to help their children dispite the fact that both have been very disabled and emotionally scared. To add to this problem the biological father is a convicted sex offender who has sexually abused several of their biological brother's and sisters and who is thought (though not proven) to have sexually abused by adopted female cousin. The whole situation is screwed up.
To make things worse Tammy (my adopted female cousin) haa gone and had a baby at the age of 19 with her often astranged boyfriend. Psychologists have told her parents that she is acting like many sexually abused girls by being sexually permiscuios and getting pregnany early. It is obvious she has relationship issues but to make matters worse she has gone and picked up a crystal meth habit.
My aunt is a social worker and by law she must inform police when ever a child is endangered so, true to law, she reported her own daughter when drug abuse was discovered.
The results where predictable. Tammy and her off again on again boyfriend lost the baby to social services while my aunt & uncle completed the process to become foster parents. Yesterday they completed the legal proceeedings and got custody of their granddaughter. My cousin and her on again off again boyfriend are very pissed off that their child has been taken away from them. Tammy just doesn't think that her drug abuse wasa that big of a deal nor does her boyfriend and neither understands why the court has ordered them to take parenting classes plus they have refused to attend the classes for the last two weeks. The two idiots just can't understand why the court keeps ruling against them.
idiots:
Who else has severely screwed up members of their family?
It turns out that both of their biological parents were big drug addicts and their biological mom used cocaine all throughout both of their pregnancies. In the end police found my new born male cousin and his 12 month old sister locked in a car without any adult in sight. When police broke into the car they found both of them were dehydrated and had diapers which had been dirty for a day or two, Their biological parents had had seven kids before them and all had been taken by the state because they were such worthless drug addled **** bags.
In any event my aunt and uncle were not told about the prenatel drug abuse until well after they had adopted. That meant they had already bonded with the two kids by the time they found out both were severally screwed up by their biological mother's drug abuse. The result is they have tried very hard to help their children dispite the fact that both have been very disabled and emotionally scared. To add to this problem the biological father is a convicted sex offender who has sexually abused several of their biological brother's and sisters and who is thought (though not proven) to have sexually abused by adopted female cousin. The whole situation is screwed up.
To make things worse Tammy (my adopted female cousin) haa gone and had a baby at the age of 19 with her often astranged boyfriend. Psychologists have told her parents that she is acting like many sexually abused girls by being sexually permiscuios and getting pregnany early. It is obvious she has relationship issues but to make matters worse she has gone and picked up a crystal meth habit.
My aunt is a social worker and by law she must inform police when ever a child is endangered so, true to law, she reported her own daughter when drug abuse was discovered.The results where predictable. Tammy and her off again on again boyfriend lost the baby to social services while my aunt & uncle completed the process to become foster parents. Yesterday they completed the legal proceeedings and got custody of their granddaughter. My cousin and her on again off again boyfriend are very pissed off that their child has been taken away from them. Tammy just doesn't think that her drug abuse wasa that big of a deal nor does her boyfriend and neither understands why the court has ordered them to take parenting classes plus they have refused to attend the classes for the last two weeks. The two idiots just can't understand why the court keeps ruling against them.
idiots:Who else has severely screwed up members of their family?
So it might not be the dugs her parents abused. 
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