Total and Utter Devastation or how i learned how to stop worrying and get revenge.

[Zoid]

Originally posted by Agathon

BUt of course, this is also bull**** because there is nothing wrong with consenting adults making pornography for other consenting adults. I do find the moralizing about porn so pedestrian and provincial.

This is what all people who don't really understand what morality is always say.

If a dog likes it, do you think it's OK to **** one?

Aggie, please... A dog can´t consent that´s the difference.

Great post btw GePap, as always

[Zoid]

Originally posted by Asher
Why does it matter?

I don't understand your fascination with intent.

Did she intend to cheat on him?
Did she intend to be in a porno?

I'm here two resounding "YES" here.

In which case telling her mother something her daughter is doing seems to come down to the daughter's own damn fault.

Now, if MRT lied, then yes, he would be in the wrong.
But since all he's doing is telling the honest-to-God truth about what the daughter did, then there was no wrong doing.

If it "ruins her life", then that was one of the consequences she should've been aware of when doing porn...then sleeping with the porn producer.

The people whining and crying about how MRT ruined her life are so out of touch that I want to smack each and every one of them back into the real world.

My god, Asher. You are a vindictive little ***** aren´t you? I pity your boyfriend if he ever steps out of line...

[SpencerH]

This is what you get for not being constantly at poly, you get to post at page 13.

I think what mrt did was classless (just like her cheating).

BTW, genital HSV1 is 'not rare' but unless its actually been tested and proven to be HSV1 it's much more likely to be HSV2 about 10X IIRC. The practical differences between the two types are small though except that genital HSV1 outbreaks are less common than with HSV2 and resolve quicker.

[General Ludd]

Originally posted by notyoueither


He's no better than a two-bit, skid row whore.

"no better"? He is a 'two-bit, skid row whore'.

[DaShi]

The reasons for this revenge are extremely childish. I'm talking 8 year old childish here. mrt has asked people not to pass judgement on him, but he's played the role of judge, jury, and execution because he believes that she needs to be taught a lesson (or more accurately, her life was too good after the break up and she should suffer).

I'm not sure Dacia is as bad as she is painted, as we all know how people talk about ex's after bad breakups. Cheating is wrong, but it happens. How you respond to it determines what type of person you are. mrt's response does not show that he's a man not to be messed with, but a vendictive little child who will scavange for the cheapest opportunity to gratify his ego.

I don't believe that mrt has learned anything from this. He's shown no remorse for his actions, and his actions just seem to be a continuation of his past behavior. I see no sign of change, other than him claiming that he's learned from this experience.

Asher's always been a little *****. No one should be surprised. But saying that, he's not entirely without merit.

[MRT144]

dashi, thats where youre wrong, i have learned a lot of things. its just it took me being an ******* to do it.

[DaShi]

Then demonstrate it. If you truly believe that your revenge is wrong, you need to apologize to Dacia for it.

[MRT144]

youre right. and as soon as im ready i will. right now im still feeling really good. Im probably going to see her around (seattle is kinda small) and at that time i will apologize.

[DeathByTheSword]

how can you still feeling really good and emitting that you are a *******?

(those are actual stars i have no idea what MRT is calling himself so i just copied the stars...)

[MRT144]

its something i dont understand myself.

[spartak]

I still think the whole story is a crock of ****

[Kuciwalker]

Originally posted by Alexander's Horse
I agree with Agathon *feints*

*dodges*

[General Ludd]

Originally posted by spartak
I still think the whole story is a crock of ****

Because we all know that porn and STDs don't really exist.

[Provost Harrison]

Originally posted by Asher

The beauty of it all is the trust breaking.

MRT trusted her to be monogamous,she cheated on him (and gave him an incurable STD!).

He then broke her trust in kind by telling her mom about the porn.

MRT still got the short end of the stick here. The mom will cool off and chalk it up to making mistakes when you're a kid.

Asher is dead right...let's have a f**king sense of proportion here - she has given him an incurable disease, yet he makes her life a bit more uncomfortable and he is the bastard?! Now get real people, he fought his corner and had to retain some sense of dignity after this sordid affair.

"Mommy! Daniel hit me!"
His mom: "Why did he do that?"
"Because I kicked him"
"well?"
"i didn't kick him as hard as he hit me!"

Yeah, MRT probably messed her up worse than she messed him up. That still doesn't matter.

For the love of God, it wasn't even Asher who even mentioned about the magnitude, he was replying to someone who had!

Originally posted by Kamrat X
Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesn´t make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

Oh, so that's OK then?

Originally posted by Kidicious


He should have used a rubber. Even if he did I don't see how it's her fault.

Mrt ought to just take it in stride. All he did was prove how she did the right thing by dumping him.

He was in a relationship of trust, if she was using the pill the barrier contraceptive was unnecessary, but she broke the trust.

As AH said, it's like a drunk driver. She was utterly reckless. And how can you not realise the consequences of sleeping around, it's pretty f**king obvious, especially when she has picked up an STD and transmitted it to her boyfriend who didn't expect to have to use barrier contraception! There has been an incredible breech of trust and recklessness to which his action pales in insignificance.

Consider this people, what if that STD was HIV which it could very likely have been, you never know what she or the porn bloke picked up. And seriously MRT, I'd recommend you get screened for it.

Personally I have never seen so much sanctimonious crap in my existence...

[Provost Harrison]

Originally posted by Sikander


Now tell him you're a christian.

And what the f**k exactly is that supposed to mean? I've seen far more filth come of your ilk than of anyone so don't moralise with me sunshine...