Total and Utter Devastation or how i learned how to stop worrying and get revenge.

[MRT144]

ok dinodoc, you were there.

[chequita guevara]

Originally posted by MRT144
shes the person who first met him on the street. we talked about it at length and then i took the inniative to contact him. then she fell head over heels into it and i got burned.

The only part of that where she was wrong is when she had sex with him without you. She didn't wrong you otherwise. Stop acting like a petulent child.

[DinoDoc]

Acting? I'd say that this thread is proof enough to justify the pejorative without qualifying it.

[lord of the mark]

Originally posted by MRT144
LoTM are those lessons for me or her?

for everyone, but especially for young people.

[Provost Harrison]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara
PH, Dacia's sex-life none of her family's goddamned business.

And Dacia has no right to f**k around with other people...cause and effect.

And MRT, you've learned a valuable lesson, don't wash your linen in public, especially here...

[MRT144]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara


The only part of that where she was wrong is when she had sex with him without you. She didn't wrong you otherwise. Stop acting like a petulent child.

im going to try to stop.

[Kuciwalker]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara
It is not Dacia's fault MRT144 has herpes. It's his own fault for agreeing to have a threesome.

What Dacia did that was wrong was to sleep around on him. That's it. That was selfish on her part, but other than making MRT144 feel bad, it did not harm him.

MRT144 on the other hand, was not only selfish but harmful. He went out of his way to **** up Dacia's life. He is a bad person. He's not just immature, he's evil in the true sense of the word.

That's exactly what I thought when I read the OP.

[Japher]

MRT is still young, this is an important lesson in growing up.

Dacia has more growing up to do. That is why her mom seeing what she did is so tramatic.

If my parents saw me doing that (assuming I had done that) they would just roll their eyes and ask how much I got paid.

Why?

Because I am a grown up!

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Japher
MRT is still young, this is an important lesson in growing up.

Dacia has more growing up to do. That is why her mom seeing what she did is so tramatic.

If my parents saw me doing that (assuming I had done that) they would just roll their eyes and ask how much I got paid.

Why?

Because I am a grown up!

which is what my parents did. i told them i was having trouble making ends meet and it was with my GF at the time it didnt seem so bad. and then i told them i negleted to sign release forms so i had the upper hand.

[Japher]

I think 2 wrongs don't make a right and that you shouldn't of done what you did

but I also think that the first wrong doesn't make the 2nd wrong wrong...

Still, what you did was immature, and is a good reflecting point to ponder when thinking who it is you want to become. I have a similar time in my life that makes me do the right thing now and in the future.

Besides, if you really wanted to get her goat you should of waited at least 1 year... Revenge is best served luke warm

[Zoid]

Originally posted by Kamrat X
Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesn´t make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.


Originally posted by Provost Harrison
Oh, so that's OK then?

PH, you quote me and you don´t read what I write? No, it´s not alright dammit. But the ends doesn´t justify the means IMO. And why do people insist that MRT was given a STD when he contracted it himself by not using a condom? That´s just bending the truth to suit ones own arguments.

[chequita guevara]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison
And Dacia has no right to f**k around with other people...cause and effect.

That's an awfully Victorian attitude to take. Sexual misconduct should be punished by having your future destroyed? No! If you screw around on your partner, you get punished by losing your partner and any support they may have given you. That's it. Cheating on someone isn't a crime in the civilized world. You don't destroy someone's future because they cheated on you. You dump them or you work things out.

[MOBIUS]

Why is everyone on here still acting as though this story is for real? It's obviously a wind up...

[Provost Harrison]

Her future destroyed? Now that is melodramatic...no one knows the future.

Sexual misconduct? Also potentially jeopardised his life through the negligence of it too...

[Zoid]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison


Simple, don't step out of line. It is amazing how cause and effect work...you know, if I started fiddling experiments at work because I couldn't be arsed my employment would be terminated immediately. I would be bankrupted pretty quickly, I would be in **** and I'd find it very hard to find another job in the field. And quite rightly so! That is consequence for you...you have to take responsibility for your actions!

Of course you have to take responsibility for you actions, I haven´t claimed otherwise. But that is up to the one who made the initial error. No one can take it upon himself to "teach someone else a lesson". Then he is just as guilty as the one who made the error. And you can´t really compare screwing up at work and screwing another guy. It´s two completely different things, when love and feeling and sex and that crap is present it ****s up everything else...