Total and Utter Devastation or how i learned how to stop worrying and get revenge.

[Zoid]

Originally posted by Drogue
Yes, I know there were consequences for her of telling her mum and it wasn't exactly nice, but how is that worse than giving him an STD and cheating on him.

Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesn´t make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Asher
Meanwhile MRT will have herpes for the rest of his life.

He should have used a rubber. Even if he did I don't see how it's her fault.

Mrt ought to just take it in stride. All he did was prove how she did the right thing by dumping him.

[MRT144]

if we both have herpes the score is 1 to 1

[Drogue]

Really? She gave him an incurable disease and cheated on him. He told someone the truth. Now whether her parents will actually force her to drop out, whether she'll get a loan, or whether they just need to calm down, I don't know. But seriously, he told someone who probably cares for her the truth. I just don't see telling someone something true as something as bad as cheating on someone.

Maybe she was naive and silly in cheating on him, and maybe he was in telling her mother. People say what he did was calculated, except it was very soon after she hurt him badly (thus and emotional time) and that hers wasn't, but to me, cheating on someone isn't something you often slip into, there's a large mental barrier of "this isn't my boyfriend" to cross.

I don't think what he did was right, proper, nice, or at all a good idea. I don't think two wrongs make a right. However I think giving someone a disease and cheating on them is worse than telling someone the truth. It may be a malicious truth, but it's not like he went to her parents and lied about everything, which would be worse, IMHO.

[Japher]

the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

malice that was a consequence of her insecurity and thoughtlessness

sometimes... you just get what you deserve

[Asher]

Originally posted by Kamrat X
Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesn´t make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

Doesn't matter, focus on the consequences.

A drunk driver may not intend to kill anyone, but it's just as bad as murder.

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Asher
I feel bad for her, but I also feel bad for MRT. I also feel bad for Charles Manson, I feel bad for Osama bin Laden, and I feel bad for pedophiles.

I feel bad for Christians.

I feel bad for lots of people who make bad decisions, but that's life for you.

Sometimes you just get what you deserve.

Everyones deserve all kinds of crap?

[Dis]

Originally posted by Asher

Another mark against women -- drama queens of the highest order.

Her mom will cool off, she's just being a drama queen like all of the other women in this thread are.

Meanwhile MRT will have herpes for the rest of his life.

It's not like she intentionally gave him herpes.

This is what happens when you have unprotected sex with sluts. It was just as much his fault as hers.

[Shi Huangdi]

"Ok, let me get this straight. Dacia gave MRT herpes then cheated on him"

As I undestand the VD came up from the porn from a threesome they were all in.

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I feel bad for her, but I also feel bad for MRT. I also feel bad for Charles Manson, I feel bad for Osama bin Laden, and I feel bad for pedophiles."

Charles Mansion, OBL, and pedophiles need society to take protective measures by placing them in prisons since if they were not there they would be out on the street harming people, and we wish to minimize the harm done to people. Society is made better off by not allowing them to be harmed. But this action MRT took doesn't make any anybody better off, he was just hurting another person.

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by MRT144
if we both have herpes the score is 1 to 1

Life isn't a game to keep score like that.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Kidicious
All he did was prove how she did the right thing by dumping him.

what kind of logical reasoning is that?
oh i know fallacious reasoning.

i only did it because she cheated and felt no remorse. if she had broken up with me clean this wouldnt have happened. we could even be friends!

[Asher]

Originally posted by Kidicious
He should have used a rubber.

She should've made him use a rubber (x2 for her previous).
She shouldn't have done porn.
She shouldn't have cheated on him.

What is your point?

[Drogue]

Originally posted by Kamrat X
Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesn´t make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

I wouldn't be so sure. I don't think the cheating was completely spur of the moment, I'd bet there was some thought of whether she should or not there. Moreover, he's still upset and angry about things, so it wasn't acting cold and rationally. Plus to me, her's is an order of magnitude higher.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Shi Huangdi
But this action MRT took doesn't make any anybody better off, he was just hurting another person.

Funny that, it's my opinion of Christian missionaries.

I guess we chalk it up to difference of opinion?

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Asher

She should've made him use a rubber (x2 for her previous).
She shouldn't have done porn.
She shouldn't have cheated on him.

What is your point?

That's a bunch of petty bull****. And they weren't married. Even if they acted like they were, she was a slut and MRT knew it. He should have protected himself if he didn't want all of that **** to happen to him. Now he ought to take it in stride and learn his lessons.