Cell phones more important than sex!

[Drogue]

Actually this happened to me the other day. A girl stopped performing a sex act on me to answer her phone, because she was expecting an important call from her boss.

I'd probably stop sex to answer my phone. However good the sex is, I'm terrified that if I don't answer my phone it'll be an important call. It's happened before from both ends, that i've tried to call someone and they've not answered or missed a call that was hideously important. It's not about being more exciting about sex, it's that the phone call might be more important.

Besides, it's an opportunity to tease someone, so it's not like you don't have sex because of the phone call.

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Drogue
Actually this happened to me the other day. A girl stopped performing a sex act on me to answer her phone, because she was expecting an important call from her boss.

Get a message service

Originally posted by Drogue

I'd probably stop sex to answer my phone. However good the sex is, I'm terrified that if I don't answer my phone it'll be an important call. It's happened before from both ends, that i've tried to call someone and they've not answered or missed a call that was hideously important. It's not about being more exciting about sex, it's that the phone call might be more important.

Get a message service

Originally posted by Drogue

Besides, it's an opportunity to tease someone, so it's not like you don't have sex because of the phone call.

This is the only good thing out of a phone call. It can be fun beyond belief to perfom a sex act on someone that is trying to keep a coherent conversation going.


As for my family, generally we use call display and screen. If we don't know who you are, we never answer anyway. In more intimate times we just ignore the phone. If its important they will leave a message.

[Dis]

despicable. I'd break up with any chick who interrupt sex with me. If she can't wait the 30 seconds it takes me to finish, she's not worth it.

[Solver]

I'd probably interrupt just because of my unfortunate experience in the past. Much of the time when I leave a class unanswered (which is rarely), it turns out the call was important. Now I'm often afraid to risk.

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Dissident


despicable. I'd break up with any chick who interrupt sex with me. If she can't wait the 30 seconds it takes me to finish, she's not worth it.

and I'll shoot back with the ever so obvious - -- and if you finish in 30 seconds, You're not worth it . . ..

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Solver
I'd probably interrupt just because of my unfortunate experience in the past. Much of the time when I leave a class unanswered (which is rarely), it turns out the call was important. Now I'm often afraid to risk.

See -- I hate this idea that we have to be accessible and reachable at every moment . . .


I guess one "solution" would be to have sex only very late or very early when any call should be a bona fide emergency . . . its just that that would seem so limiting

[Starchild]

Originally posted by Flubber


See -- I hate this idea that we have to be accessible and reachable at every moment . . .

Why? I hate it when my mobile is off the network or MSN won't sign in. If I'm connected, I'm in contact with people and that usually means good stuff.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Solver
I'd probably interrupt just because of my unfortunate experience in the past. Much of the time when I leave a class unanswered (which is rarely), it turns out the call was important. Now I'm often afraid to risk.

cell phones are nice enough to show you missed calls, and they have voice mail.

There is never a need to answer a cell phone.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Flubber


See -- I hate this idea that we have to be accessible and reachable at every moment . . .


I guess one "solution" would be to have sex only very late or very early when any call should be a bona fide emergency . . . its just that that would seem so limiting

indeed

[Drogue]

Originally posted by Flubber
Get a message service

When a reply is needed instantly, or in the case of an emergency, a message service doesn't work. Moreover, the choice is between answering the phone call and delaying sex, it's not like it would involve not having it. I've got no problem delaying sex for 30 seconds so I can take a phone call.

I think we differ fundamentally, as you see being always contactable as a bad thing, and I see it as a necessity - I *hate* being uncontactable, so I try to always make sure I am. Though I managed remarkably well in Salzburg being out of service area

[Drogue]

Originally posted by Dissident
cell phones are nice enough to show you missed calls, and they have voice mail.

There is never a need to answer a cell phone.

Family member's had an accident, someone's about to make a large bet, a friend's just broken up with their partner and needs not to feel ignored, etc.

If the purpose of the call is to inform you of something non-urgent, a message is fine. If it's urgent, or if a response is needed, it isn't.

[Ming]

I can't think of many things that couldn't wait... Even work problems aren't life or death. Now if I was a doctor or law enforcement agent, that might be a different story.

[Verto]

What about a PM from Apolyton?

[Ming]

Originally posted by Verto
What about a PM from Apolyton?

Those can wait a week

[Starchild]

See, calls mean urgency. If something wasn't urgent, they'd send me a text message and I never interrupt sex for those.