Are you a home wrecker?

[Dinner]

I've never cheated on any girlfriend I've ever had and I don't believe I ever will, however, have you ever been the "other person"? By that I mean the girl/guy you were having an affair with was married or in a committed relationship. I did date a girl once when I was in Santa Barbara who's husband was in jail for steal cars or something like that. I guess they married young and he never sorted himself out. Any way I was young horny and dumb so I kept seeing her for about two months before I realized I probably didn't want an enraged convicted felon coming to look for me when he got out of prison so I cut it off. It was just a fun thing and I figured if she didn't mind I didn't mind.

Is anyone else a moral reprobate like me? Any cheaters or accomplices in cheating?

[joncha]

Yes.

[Sava]

I've never cheated, nor would I ever. I would also not date a woman if she were still married or seperated.

have fun in hell Oerdin

[Spiffor]

Nope. I have been tempted once, but the guy looked too sympathetic and his couple too solid for me to want to wreck it. OTOH, the girl was really attractive. Fortunately, I remained undecided until it became obvious things wouldn't work

[Pekka]

The reason they call it cheating is because it's so common. Otherwise, if we really looked at it, we would call it being honourless bastard. Basically, if you want to go to another person, you can break up with the one you are now BEFORE screwing around. Anyone who can't control themselves are bastards, and those who choose to be 'i couldn't help myself' excuse giving poeple are honourless bastards who also lie to themselves.

The strength in a good person, the inner strength and the sense of ones pride will always be greater than the moment of lust, attraction or what ever. People are weak, yes, but also 90% of people are also stupid smelly bastards and we know it. If one is swinging with the permission of the partner, that's cool. But going solo commando style is breaking up a trust, even if the other one never finds it out, and that person is lying to him/herself, and letting some crap weigh more than own pride and honour. And that's why they are honourless bastards. It's not a character flaud. It's a bad character.

This in general.

[Provost Harrison]

No, just you...

[Mrs. Tuberski]

I have but I didnt know the ass was married. I dated a married man for 4 years before I found out he still had a wife. The ass spent the night with me almost everynight and those nights he didnt claimed he was on call and worked all night. It didnt occur to me until after the wife alled me and asked if i was F****** her husband. I asked who her husband was and then told her no. Dont know why I said that but any way I then figured out that while we were together he would pick fights with me for no reason and then leave. I was stupid then I guess. I say that cause he would come back and stay with me again. Boy was I a big sucker and did i get played like a fool.

[Gibsie]

I've not wrecked anything, but I don't think doing so is THAT awful. It's quite funny, my ex left me for another guy and I was rather pissed off with him to say the least- until I learnt that he didn't actually like her in that way and is going out with one of her friends now. So you see, it doesn't even have to be intentional for you to be a homewrecker!

[Asher]

Alsie is a homewrecker.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Nope... if you don't want to be on the other end, then don't be that guy.

[Sava]

good avatar Asher

[Pekka]

that's ok. I don't think you are any bit of a lesser person after you came out with it, than you already were.

[Pekka]

How is your self esteem my little communist friend!? I didn't say how I regarded you before. I just said the thing didn't change my mind to think any less of you. A-ha! You need to look in the mirror and say '**** I'm sexy!'.Or something.

But yes I will give you another chance, because that's the caliber of a man I am.

[Kidlicious]

I wouldn't call it homewrecking, but one night I got really drunk. It was my friends gf too, even though they weren't very close. We were taking shots of tequila with another person while laying on a bed. The other person left and we were in the room alone. I have no idea how it happened, but I wasn't thinking at all and it happened. The third person came back in the room while we were going at it.

Holy crap, I still kick myself for that. My friend didn't seem to care at all, but I guess I will never really know. Actually I'm sure it hurt him.

[Provost Harrison]

Slut!