Anyone else here is also single and doesn't like it?

[Urban Ranger]

@ Guy

[Bkeela]

I'm exceedingly happy being single. I've never been so utterly, clinically depressed, as when I've been in relationships. No amount of sex can compensate for the abject misery of having no peace of mind, and no space and solitude in which to recharge.

I would have a harem of women if I could, or an android sex slave, but otherwise I am truely content remaining a bachelor.

[Space05us]

Ever see a real doll?

(hint: google it, I cant link to it.) (unless life like naked dolls dont count as porn?)

[Bkeela]

Space05us, I've seen those dolls. I'll wait another 20 years until the Seven of Nine model becomes available.

[Space05us]

I'll wait another 20 years until the Seven of Nine model becomes available.

Are you saying you want one that looks like 7 of 9, because they make custom dolls. Or are you saying you want something that has sex with you.

[Bkeela]

I want something sophisticated enough to be indistinguishable from a human. Either a hologram, or some kind of android. I would want it to look like Jeri Ryan though, but likely I wouldn't be able to afford it anyway. Seven of Nine is simply my conception of the ideal woman: beautiful, obsessed with efficiency, and unemotional.

[Az]

And yes, clearly, I have yet to work out a way to reconcile #1 and #2.

The solution is quite easy, it seems: become completely insane.

[Frankychan]

I say just do your own thing. Focus on work or whatever and don't really pay them any attention. You'll come off as confident and nonchalant.

Shoot, I was trying really hard and found out that I looked desperate (something that girls don't really like). So I'm just doing my own thing...focusing on work, and I'm really finding out that girls are approaching ME now.

As for the "not getting any" thing....I can't really say, my love life is sporadic but so is my sex drive so it works out really well. Usually they synch up right.

I say just focus on doing your own thing and chicks will be curious about you.

Sh**, it's working for me.

(Too bad I haven't found the right one yet, but I'm still young)

[Urban Ranger]

Yup, you have to like yourself enough first. Otherwise it's just completely futile.

[trev]

After about 12 years of single life following a broken marriage, I find loneliness does not diminsh with time and the single life becomes more painful with time, not less. But I think the best way to go forward is to be a friend to others, helpful to people in need, not seeking temporary comfort in sex, because that does not help in overcoming the depression of single living.

[Giancarlo]

If girls don't work out for you, just go with guys. When I was 15 I did try to date girls and no it didn't work out cause I didn't have any interest in them... and then I ended up with a guy sometime later.. for me guys just understand me better... Girls... far too complicated. So go gay.

I'm currently in a relationship... dating this nice boy (you probably seen his pictures in the community forum).

[molly bloom]

I've been with the same man for 20 years.


I can hardly recall what it's like to be single, to not think about someone else all the time, and share obscure in-jokes and phrases and have someone else know what you're thinking.

[Bkeela]

If one is going to be flexible about sexuality, why not just develop a relationship with a gerbil? Maybe buy a goat? Heck, maybe a goldfish might do it for you?

[molly bloom]

Originally posted by Bkeela
If one is going to be flexible about sexuality, why not just develop a relationship with a gerbil? Maybe buy a goat? Heck, maybe a goldfish might do it for you?

I'm thinking the phrase 'one size fits all' might be inappropriate with respect to the gerbil and goldfish.


Haven't heard that many goat or gerbil raconteurs or comedians, either, and goldfish conversation is pretty limited too, from memory.

[Sikander]

Yea, fish just swim back and forth saying, "morning!" to one another.