Anyone else here is also single and doesn't like it?

[Combat Ingrid]

Originally posted by Kamrat X
No sense of humour

The Al-Asqua islamists have never been famous for their great sense of humor

[Spiffor]

[Space05us]

I blame that Alaskan oil. It's affecting his health. Clearly, it must be removed from his state and put somewhere safe...

I agree whole-heartedly

The Al-Asqua islamists have never been famous for their great sense of humor

No we havent.

[Tattila the Hun]

Bah, I'm a Fat Bastard. No dice of me gettin' any.

[St Leo]

Originally posted by DRoseDARs
I hear the penguins are none too friendly either...

Wrong pole. The Penguins are at the East Pole. Space05 lives at the NorthWest Pole. You are thinking of the Jub-Jub Bird.

[Sirotnikov]

Originally posted by lord of the mark
I know we Americans think about geography differently, but its not THAT far from Haifa to Tel Aviv. Egged is pretty regular, no, as is the rekevet (railroad). Do young Israeli women really look down on you THAT much if you dont have a mechonit (car)?

Public Transportation is ****e.
And you can't go anywhere without a car.

How about expanding your circle ?

(Masorti Congregation in Haifa
Moriah
Rabbi Ari Burzstein
7 Horev Street
POB 7041
Haifa 34070

Contact - Haia Gross 04 825 1495 )

I doubt they will share some of the liberal values I have about relationships

But I'm willing to turn up if you have acquaintances there. I'll drop by and say LOTM sent me, and I'll see what gives. You're in for it?

Sure youre busy, but you could take some time off Friday night, no?

They will be too busy praying and I'll want to go sit in a cafe.

[Sirotnikov]

Originally posted by Azazel


in any case, if by "being alone" you mean "not having a lasting relationship", then, yes, I am alone.

No, I mean "not having any relationship, even dating; not having any sex, even fooling around and going out with your female friends and returning home annoyed as hell that you ain't coming back together, even though you really wouldn't want to have anything with that friend.

At this point I don't really mind it, since I don't see any point in being in a lasting relationship if the girl isn't just perfect (you'll know it when you'll get it ). God forbid that such a relationship will last: The end may be very hurtful to one of you.

You don't know if a girl is perfect until you have been with her for some time.

[Verres]

I'm single...but rather happy about it really.

Tried the whole 'serious relationship' thing and found it wasn't for me. There is the loneliness aspect I suppose, but generally casually 'dating' various people is far more exciting and requires a lot less effort/responsibility.

Perhaps when I'm older I'll feel the need for something more permanent, but it will take a certain 'someone' to make me think it's worth it. Not sure if this person exisits, and I dont want to waste my life searching for them when I could be out having fun

[Az]

No, I mean "not having any relationship, even dating; not having any sex, even fooling around and going out with your female friends and returning home annoyed as hell that you ain't coming back together, even though you really wouldn't want to have anything with that friend.

You need a makeover. The fab five SUV is on it's way to your base.
[/metrosexual]

[Immortal Wombat]

Originally posted by Gibsie
Great outlook! Although I have to ask: are you saying this as someone who's single and happy with it, or someone who's actually got a partner?

I'm single and lazy.

[Sirotnikov]

Originally posted by Azazel

No, I mean "not having any relationship, even dating; not having any sex, even fooling around and going out with your female friends and returning home annoyed as hell that you ain't coming back together, even though you really wouldn't want to have anything with that friend.

You need a makeover. The fab five SUV is on it's way to your base.
[/metrosexual]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!


Btw, I'm quite cool looking so no need to make me over

[DRoseDARs]

Originally posted by St Leo

Originally posted by DRoseDARs
I hear the penguins are none too friendly either...

Wrong pole. The Penguins are at the East Pole. Space05 lives at the NorthWest Pole. You are thinking of the Jub-Jub Bird.

Originally posted by Space05us
Wrong hemisphere

Originally posted by Kamrat X
No sense of humour

Originally posted by DRoseDARs
I blame that Alaskan oil. It's affecting his health. Clearly, it must be removed from his state and put somewhere safe...

Please keep up with the rest of the class and pay attention!

[Dis]

Re: Anyone else here is also single and doesn't like it?

Originally posted by Sirotnikov
Well, I'm alone for quite a while now.

Things didn't workout with my g/f shortly before the military, and we broke up. She later wanted to try again but I refused.

Then I had a short time of fun - meeting new people and even dating a bit. But that ended in the military.

Today I work long hours with a fixed group of people, and even though I meet lots of girls there, it is problematic since they are either taken or fall for older guys. (my unit is small and varied in the age groups ranging from 18 to 22 (the older commanders are irrelevant). Not to mention it is a very difficult environment since rumors and gossip travel faster than a rocket on its way to a terrorist.

I usually only have time to go 'out' on weekends or rarely during the week. But there are several problems:

1) I'm quite poor. Army salary doesn't help.

2) Don't have a driver's lisence yet ("My dad will pick us up, ok?") because I spent my money on the SATs I took before the military, and I don't have time to take the courses now anyway.

3) My friends circle has become small. I no longer find my self invited to huge "frat-like" parties at people's houses, where you could drink, chat and such.

Most times going out means meeting the same people - either my male friends or my female friends who aren't options (really - they aren't. I dated one before, and the other one is not suitable for it).

Alot of time I feel like I'm wasting my time going 'out' with my female friends when I should attempt really dating and picking up chicks.

But I'm too "skeptical" either about my chances or about the girls. I have quite high demands and I almost turned down my previous g/f because I wasn't sure about her. I tend to think about each girl - would we manage having a normal relationship? And usually I find reasons why not - so I just do nothing.


So while I got excited about some girls during the first several months of military service - by now I'm pretty numb to it.

I keep thinking that I just don't have the time, money or car needed to have a relationship right now. And it sucks since I feel I need one.



So, am I the only one not getting any?

my not getting any status is legendary here at Apolyton.

I've come to realize that I'm a bit of a loner. I don't think I could ever make a long term relationship work. And usually all I care about is sex anyways. There are times I think it would be nice to just snuggle with a woman and be friends with them. But usually I just want to bang them.

[Spiffor]

Snuggling and banging aren't incompatible. It's actually a winning combination

[Zoid]

Originally posted by Combat Ingrid


The Al-Asqua islamists have never been famous for their great sense of humor

Damn, where´s Steven Seagal when you need him?