How do I help people who have lost thier loved ones?

[Sirotnikov]

Now, apparently there are about 6 girls who I'm ackquainted with that lost friends (some of them related to the same victims).

And my gf is now also very depressed. I simply don't know what to do.

On one hand I want to hug and cry. On the other hand I'm used to repressing my feelings, and it somsetimes seems to me as if it was better to leave them alone. Because nothing I can do helps.