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**Space05us** · July 27, 2002, 01:55

she must have been worth it then, eh?

**monkspider** · July 27, 2002, 01:58

Oh, I like to think so.

**orange** · July 27, 2002, 01:59

that's really cool monk

Congrats! I'll see if I have any nice looking profs this semester

As for the issue at hand, I'm with Space. Older women kick ass. They're more mature. I've always dated older women. They're not as petty as younger girls are, and they're better conversationalists. Ditch the 14 year old, just be her friend...don't sit around waiting for more, she'll just steal time away from your prime dating years.

**Prince of blood** · July 27, 2002, 02:01

look everyone i have no social skills whatsoever and there are very few girls intrested in the things i like. she happenes to be an intresting person and we have like intrestes. SO to me other than legal things (which would not happen because im not SEXUALY attracted to her) i have no problem with liking a girl that is 3 years younger.

put it this way when im 21 she will be 18 !!!!!!!!!

**Prince of blood** · July 27, 2002, 02:03

you bring about an intresting point orange but it is not that easy

**Space05us** · July 27, 2002, 02:05

when you're 21 and she's 18 there will be a much smaller gap than 14 and 17.

**monkspider** · July 27, 2002, 02:05

Good luck Orange! Just remember, though they may not be inclined to admit it, all attractive College profs really want at heart is a cute and virile young college boy.

**Tiamat** · July 27, 2002, 02:07

Well I've always liked being the older woman myself. There's nothing wrong with dating someone older then you if you have things in common.

**Prince of blood** · July 27, 2002, 02:07

21 and 18 is the same age gap as 17 and 14 space!!!

**Prince of blood** · July 27, 2002, 02:08

thank you tiamat

**orange** · July 27, 2002, 02:08

so tell me why not. I'm the resident love doctor here

Er...you aren't another Albert Speer case are you?

**monkspider** · July 27, 2002, 02:09

Settler - My friend who is twenty finally got his first girlfriend who was sixteen just a couple months ago. So I can empathize with the whole "being a nerdy guy and finally meeting a chick who can appreciate you" situation. I'll just say this, 14 year old girls can be very unpredictable, and may make dump you for the new guy she met in gym class at any given moment. So if you insist upon this relationship, just use caution, in any event.

**orange** · July 27, 2002, 02:11

Prince - there's nothing wrong with a 21 year old and an 18 year old dating...

and theoretically there's nothing wrong with a 17 year old and a 14 year old dating. But you have to understand that it's not really the same thing. There's a short period of time where age gaps are HUGE. 14-17 is a huge gap. It makes the older look like a pedophile and the younger look like a whore.

above all else, tread lightly

**Tiamat** · July 27, 2002, 02:11

Originally posted by Prince of blood
thank you tiamat

No problem, considering I'm 20 years older then my significant other. It works.

**Prince of blood** · July 27, 2002, 02:12

thanks monk ill remember that but i will say again RIGHT NOW im only lokin to see if she likes me. i will wait at liest till she is 16 to take it to the next step.

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