One of life's many decisions

[Blisterz]

My girlfriend is fooling around on me, (i really am not going into how i know, but trust me i know). So I guess you can say we are having are first major fight. We had a really nasty Tif (i mean kitchen stuff throwing nasty) At this moment she is standing in front of our house throwing stuff at the window 'cause for some reason the door is locked.

Should I let her stand out there making an arse of herself for awhile while I sit in here and drink all her wine at the window? Or, let her in and deprive myself and my neibours of the great show of fury on my front lawn?

I am leaning toward digging out the cork screw.

[Tuberski]

Cork screw!

[MrFun]

Any real communication requires both of you to tell the other person how he or she feels without shouting at each other, and without physical violence or the threat of physical violence.

[Blisterz]

I have mentioned in other threads that I used to be an active heroin addict. Well, I kinda 'fell off the wagon' so to speak in the last month. When I confronted her about the guy she was seen with at a bar a few towns away, she said "If you can stick a needle in your arm, I can stick a... (I really don't want to repeat it, I am sure you get the idea).

All i can say is that really hurts.

Sorry about the spelling, I have been drinking.

[Tuberski]

Well, that changes things doesn't it? Forget the corkscrew man. Help yourself.

[Blisterz]

Originally posted by Tuberski
Well, that changes things doesn't it? Forget the corkscrew man. Help yourself.

Yes yes i know, but I really don't see what addiction has to do with breaking someone's trust.

I really should not even be discussing these in the same thread.

[orange]

my ex-girlfriend cheated on me a few weeks into our reltionship, and I found out on Christmas day in front of her entire extended family. I took her back, spent two and a half more years with her, and then she screwed me over.

Take a guess at which side I'm going to take.

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by MrFun
Any real communication requires both of you to tell the other person how he or she feels without shouting at each other, and without physical violence or the threat of physical violence.

If my girlfriend were cheating on me then I wouldn't want to communicate with her.

Blisterz: Drink as much as you can, then try to piss on her head out the window.

[David Floyd]

Look, in my opinion I think you should do what's best for YOU - if she's messing around, that is totally uncool, and not your fault. Look at it like this - would you marry someone who has a history of cheating? If not. tell her to **** off, go out to the bars/clubs/wherever. and find someone better.

IMO of course.

[orange]

me KrazyHorse and David Floyd all in agreement....

we must be at the nexus of the universe

[Inverse Icarus]

if she said that, comparing a heroin addiction to what i THINK she said, she's not worth it.

[Blisterz]

I am assuming there must be somthing still there. 'cause for some reason when I see you guys tellin' me to piss on her and such I catch myself wanting to tell you off and defend her. God, I should of stuck with C.o.c.k (sorry had to write it that way, or it would of been stared out) .

[KrazyHorse]

You better be sure she ****ed around on you, though. It's sorta hard to apologise for drenching someone in your alcohol-laden urine...

[orange]

I am assuming there must be somthing still there. 'cause for some reason when I see you guys tellin' me to piss on her and such I catch myself wanting to tell you off and defend her. God, I should of stuck with C.o.c.k (sorry had to write it that way, or it would of been stared out) .

Chances are that's natural. You've had feelings for her for a while (I'm assuming this is a long relationship)

I felt the same way after my breakup. I'd talk about how angry I was at her, my friends would agree, and then I'd tell them they were wrong. It's a natural thing, but you'll get over it...

I know I did

[Blisterz]

Thanks for putting up with my whining guys. Sitting her talking to your guys and listening to tunes is really helping drown out the banging and screaming downstairs.