When do you put on a condome?

[orange]

Originally posted by JohnT
Aw, I've gots to use a condom because the wife forgot to take a pill this past week.

yuck! marital sex with a condom? That's the worst!

er, not that I would know...it's what i would assume anyway. Once you get married you want to say goodbye to that condom, no more stop and go sex for you!

[Moral Hazard]

If I've been dating them for less ~6 months (it's not exact time of course), or if Im not sure if she's not taking the pill etc., or if she insist I wear one.

Or if I happen not to have one on me

[MrFun]

If I know enough about a person that I can be CERTAIN that he is trustworthy, then after having been with him monogamously for a certain period of time, I would do away with condoms after we have both been tested.

But the question for myself is what amount of time would be reasonable to engage in sex without condoms? At least a year? Or two years?

[devilmunchkin]

before you go inside

[Skanky Burns]

I used to use them. Since my fiancee uses a contraceptive, I don't need them anymore. Needless to say, both of us are clean.

[devilmunchkin]

i usually have my partner use them whether i'm using the pill or no
just because my mother became pregnant with my sister while using both.....
and i'd just like that bit of protection ....
babies....that's not something i want or need in my life right now

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by MrFun
But the question for myself is what amount of time would be reasonable to engage in sex without condoms? At least a year? Or two years?

Depending on where you met the person and how trustworthy they are, anywhere from 2 weeks to never. I don't tend to date girls who have "been around" all that much. Maybe it's just me, but while most of the girls I know aren't virgins, they haven't exactly had dozens of sexual partners either. My total number of partners is probably going to stay in the single digits, and I'm pretty comfortable with that.

and what is so great about a thread supporting pre-marital sex?

Get a ****ing clue, man.

yall do realize how rare someone like me is, right? poor city kids always be doing ****. i try to rise up above this garbage and get other people to rise up too but here yall mother****ers are talking about how great garbage is

Yeah. You're a walking, talking episode of Touched by an Angel. Give us all a break and take your bull**** stories elsewhere.

[Dis]

I hate condoms. but I sleep with a lot of sluts . But I usually just sleep with women who I know I can get a quick lay from. I deperately seek out "good" women. But I just can't maintin a relationship . So I just seek out loose women. I really would like to settle down with a nice women I don't have to worry about std's. I don't like any std. I don't want anything growing on my you know what.

so for me it is always. I have never went without a condom (except getting a hand job). But you can still get herpes. That worries me.

[Provost Harrison]

Condoms? They are those interesting little latex bag things aren't they? Never found a use for them except for good waterbombs though

[Az]

Originally posted by paiktis22


So let's say you are one of those guys who have these really long relationships

is "relationtship" some kind of code-word ?


*runs away*

[Worthingtons]

hmm.. I'm someone who 'took my chance' earlier this week after a drunken night out... and I am seriously starting to regret it now as I've had flu like symtoms for the past few days, and I'm worried It's ARS.

[August Borms]

pericoloza

rthats what my father used to say before hze beat me

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Keep a helmet on that soldier, kids.

I use them all the time- and I've not slept with anyone other than my wife in the last ten years. Why should she face pill-related unpleasantness?

[MrFun]

One guy I dated a couple of times actually admitted his ignorance when I told him I was going to use a condom with him even if I was going to be the top.

He actually said something like this -- "But I do not have any STDs, and you said you do not have any. Besides, I'm going to be the bottom -- so how would you get STDs even if I did have something?"

Basically, he thought that as a top, I could not get any STDs from a bottom.

I said -- "No thanks anyway, and GOOD NIGHT!"

[Gibsie]

I used condoms for the first couple of months with my girlfriend, but when she went on the pill (with seemingly no-side effects), we stopped using them, except for the occasional times when she forgets. Silly moo