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Some people I know assert that they never quarrel with their other half.
Is this good or bad for a relationship?
Is this good or bad for a relationship?
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(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
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Good if both learn from them I´d say.Blah -
Is that from personal experience BeBro?
So it is good not to have quarrels? Since it is inevitable to have conflicts, I'd thought quarrels are like safety valves.(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
(='.'=) "Claims demand evidence; extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence." -- Carl Sagan
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Unfortunately, yes.
BlahComment
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No, if all they can do is scream. Yes, if they can both listen to each other.Rethink Refuse Reduce Reuse
Do It OurselvesComment
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No quarrels means either no involvement or one member allways ending up drawing the short end of any deal, leaving a lot of frustration.
Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent. Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent. Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil? Is he neither able nor willing?
Then why call him God? - EpicurusComment
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yes, or to be more precise, testing times are good for relationships. If they're for good, they'll last, if they'll collapse, did you really want it in the first place?
This is nice in theory, of course. Reality is quite different.
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It's all about how they're fought, how they're resolved, and what they're about. In general, when they aren't screaming affairs in which truly hurtful things are said, there is satisfactory resolution, and they aren't about nitpicky details, they can really strengthen a relationship. Otherwise, I think they serve as a demonstration of why that couple shouldn't be together."Beauty is not in the face...Beauty is a light in the heart." - Kahlil Gibran
"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves" - Victor Hugo
"It is noble to be good; it is still nobler to teach others to be good -- and less trouble." - Mark TwainComment
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Originally posted by Osweld
No, if all they can do is scream. Yes, if they can both listen to each other.
If I'm posting here then Counterglow must be down.Comment
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Never listen, just pretend, remember they are trying to brainwash you
Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent. Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent. Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil? Is he neither able nor willing?
Then why call him God? - EpicurusComment
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Are relationships without fights and quarrels less passionate, or is it just a matter of characters of the persons involved?(\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
(='.'=) "Claims demand evidence; extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence." -- Carl Sagan
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too many is bad, but too few is as well.B♭3Comment
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matter of charaters. my gf and i don't have many fights, and usually whatever ones we do have aren't anything that lasts a long time.B♭3Comment
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Question is pointless, since all relationships will have quarrels.A lot of Republicans are not racist, but a lot of racists are Republican.Comment
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they can be good or bad
if both sides are just talking at each other, bad
if each person is willing to compromise and help the other get what they want, goodWe the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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