Picture time

[Pekka]

Here's my swimsuit picture.

[Az]

gee, pekka, what happened to your fingers?!

[Az]

puny mortals.

[Brundlefly]

Originally posted by FemmeAdonis
i think the more important question is whether I'd consider YOU.

No disrespect, but I doubt it. I have enough female attention right now. See, it's much more difficult for a woman to find a good man than a man to find a good woman. Why? Because so few men understand how to satisfy a woman. And because most women are too picky waiting for just the 'right' male experience. That's kind of funny because most of them can't define what they really want in a man anyway - they just go by gut feelings which can fluxuate on any given day for any number of reasons. So when a guy comes along who is not afraid of his own sexuality, who calls a woman on her BS, and who understands how to quickly identify what makes a particular woman tick by appealing to her feelings (and is able to apply this knowledge to satisfy the woman), that is a lucky day for the woman he approaches. So my claim is that I'm that kind of guy. You'll have to take my word for it since we aren't face-to-face. I generally have three girls that I date semi-regularly at any given time and I don't get serious with any of them. Once one starts to talk about love, she's out of the rotation. I have others that I consider as replacements in the rotation in the event that one of the three f*cks up and has to be replaced...

In summary: In a m/f relationship, I'm the prize because what I'm offering is more valuable.

and the answer to the question is quite obvious if you have any bit of brain activity

Oh it is SO obvious.. You read this far, didn't you?

[Provost Harrison]

You sound very mercenary Feephi - a right rat in fact

Hmmm, what women want eh? Well they seem to want this and want that, and invariably end up going for a complete loser...

[Pekka]

Feephi is a playa playa .. the ultimate satisfaction machine Uu uUuU uUuu! I'm still best BOYAAA!

[Makeo]

Originally posted by Azazel
puny mortals.

haha, cool pic

[Chris Wilkinson]

Here's me.

[DeathByTheSword]

Feephi as long as you havent experienced love before you do NOT know what you are talking about...

[Provost Harrison]

You need a trim my ichthyophobic friend

[Pekka]

Hey guys, if you think you're so hot, where's your swimsuit pictures? Yeah, that's right, you're not professionals.

Feephi, your post kind of gives me the feeling, that you consider women as conquests more than partners. I figure you two don't even know each other, but somehow you have the biggest urge to prove you're a real man. DONG DONG Wrong answer! Real men KNOW they are real men! And they treat women with the respect they deserve, and as partners, not as conquests or objects. All that smells of insecurity..... Instead of ticking someone, how about scratching my itching butt? In your face!

[Chris Wilkinson]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison
You need a trim my ichthyophobic friend

Nah, I'm growing it long to keep me warm when I have to suffer a Russian winter

[Az]

No disrespect, but I doubt it. I have enough female attention right now. See, it's much more difficult for a woman to find a good man than a man to find a good woman. Why? Because so few men understand how to satisfy a woman. And because most women are too picky waiting for just the 'right' male experience. That's kind of funny because most of them can't define what they really want in a man anyway - they just go by gut feelings which can fluxuate on any given day for any number of reasons. So when a guy comes along who is not afraid of his own sexuality, who calls a woman on her BS, and who understands how to quickly identify what makes a particular woman tick by appealing to her feelings (and is able to apply this knowledge to satisfy the woman), that is a lucky day for the woman he approaches. So my claim is that I'm that kind of guy. You'll have to take my word for it since we aren't face-to-face. I generally have three girls that I date semi-regularly at any given time and I don't get serious with any of them. Once one starts to talk about love, she's out of the rotation. I have others that I consider as replacements in the rotation in the event that one of the three f*cks up and has to be replaced...

Yes, but you still post on apolyton.

[Provost Harrison]

I'd rather no one scratches anyones itching butt in anyones face, thank you very much

[Brundlefly]

Originally posted by Pekka

Feephi, your post kind of gives me the feeling, that you consider women as conquests more than partners.

Not at all. I did mention that I keep semi-regular relationships with women. I just prefer to not focus on one woman. Maybe that's a hard concept to understand in your society. They are my partners in a MLTR (LTR on My terms) and I feel affection for them but not love. Whoever loves the most in a relationship has the least control. How do you efine 'partner' in Finland, anyway? Letting the woman be in control?

I figure you two don't even know each other, but somehow you have the biggest urge to prove you're a real man.
DONG DONG Wrong answer! Real men KNOW they are real men! And they treat women with the respect they deserve, and as partners, not as conquests or objects. All that smells of insecurity.....

My argument was an attempt to disprove the idea that I should be lucky to have a woman consider me instead of the other way around. I'm only defending myself against BS - hers and now yours. And when any individual, or your school administration, or office personal department, or legal system attempt to spew such BS on you, it is your responsibility as a man to call such BS when you see it to your friends, and to the ones doing the spewing.

You must stand up for yourself, and love yourself (as well as women), while at the same time not being afraid to call BS from women (or men spewing BS on behalf of women) openly, publicly and for what it is. Because if you don’t, you will never have success with women (or anything else for that matter) in life, if you always let others trample all over you because you are too afraid to stand up for yourself and what is right. That's what real men do.

Instead of ticking someone, how about scratching my itching butt? In your face!

Love to discuss this with you in person sometime...