Who Pays On A Date...

[Dinner]

Sure.

[Spiffor]

My gf and I have a deal. She pays for the pill, I pay for the condoms.
It turned out pretty much even

[Japher]

My gf and I have a deal. She pays for the pill, I pay for the condoms.
It turned out pretty much even

Does she have a low co-pay, or are you buying platinum studded condems?

[Spiffor]

Originally posted by Japher
Does she have a low co-pay, or are you buying platinum studded condems?

Let's just say I'm vigorous
[/brag]
More seriously, condoms are damn expansive if you go for quality. ~0.80 € apiece.

[Japher]

You don't reuse them?!

[Spiffor]

Originally posted by Japher
You don't reuse them?!

I'll ask my gf what she thinks about it first

[Ari Rahikkala]

[Spiffor]

@ Ari

[Japher]

It's more like whoever has to sit through a date with Park

[Elok]

If the entire point of dates was getting some tail and nothing more, you'd think men would have just switched to standard whore-shopping by now. Never had a GF(used to be I was just too much of a nerd, now there's also the fact that I don't know many girls who'd be worth the otherwise pointless bother of getting a real job/car/responsibility), so I don't know personally.

[Japher]

Elok, are you still a virgin?

[Spiffor]

Originally posted by Elok
If the entire point of dates was getting some tail and nothing more, you'd think men would have just switched to standard whore-shopping by now.

Nah. Non-whores are far superior, as you can have sex with them at your or their home. Much more comfortable

[Elok]

Don't see how that's any of your business, but if you really want to know, yes. It's actually not really hard to go without, once you get past the initial hump of learning mental discipline, and it saves you trouble. I might be interested in getting married if I meet someone I can talk to for more than two minutes in person without getting bored(who happens to be female-yes, I'm sure I'm straight), but the sleeping-around thing doesn't interest me. There's nothing I hate more than the shallowness and superficiality of getting-to-know-you crap, and I'm not about to drag myself through it voluntarily every few months, paying for a car, gas, insurance, etc. along the way, for something that takes less than an hour before it's over and exposes me to herpes. Screw that. Sex could feel like winning the bloody superbowl and it still wouldn't be worth the bother if it interrupts my otherwise perfectly contented existence.

[Spiffor]

I was perfectly contented when I was still a virgin (I was one of those "happy virgins", glad to be free and not to be dependent of the needs of the flesh)
And I can tell you not being a virgin anymore is very good when looking back. Sex, along with the relationship, sure helped me mature a lot and made me accept who I was. To have someone love you like you are, without you needing to show off, is an impressive plus

I hope you'll find that love too. But you won't find that love if you're not going to look for it. If you're ready to have meaningful relations, you'll have them

[Timexwatch]

Originally posted by Elok
Don't see how that's any of your business, but if you really want to know, yes. It's actually not really hard to go without, once you get past the initial hump of learning mental discipline, and it saves you trouble.

And masturbating three times a day...

There's nothing I hate more than the shallowness and superficiality of getting-to-know-you crap, and I'm not about to drag myself through it voluntarily every few months, paying for a car, gas, insurance, etc. along the way, for something that takes less than an hour before it's over and exposes me to herpes.

An hour?


Don't worry, we all go through dry spells (I'm going on more than a year, mostly self-imposed).