Create your ideal mate

[Adagio]

Originally posted by Uber KruX
case in point, lana from smallville (kristin kreuilk, or something), half chinese, half dutch:

...and all beautiful


Btw, that'll be Kristin Kreuk


My votes:

Height: as tall as me or shorter than me
Hair: Dark (black, dark brown)
Eyes: Dark (dark brown)
Hair: Short, long or in the middle... makes not much difference*... as long as there's hair (Don't want them to be balled )
Figure: Athletic (What is "Lean"?)
Skin color: The darker, the better (But in some cases (as above picture) the lighter color is ok also
"Asian" facial features (east asia, South East asia)


*Though in some cases I defently prefer short hair (Anyone seen Ghost? Demi More's haircut is perfect for her)

[lightblue]

Shorter than me (6'5"+ girls are a rarity anyway ), though still tall (5'9" -6')
Light brown, dark blond hair
Green or blue eyes
Athletic figure (only girls I really consider are athletes, but not the musclebound ones, rather the rangy).
Caucasian really, but mainly because the above features aren't really found in any other

[Sava]

I can't begin to describe a perfect make. Looks wouldn't be my primary concern. Obviously, I would have to find her attractive, but personality is the selling point. There isn't a race or ethnicity that doesn't contain beautiful women.

[GePap]

Originally posted by The Templar


Many (not all) hispanics are a mixture of Indigenous Americans, Europeans, and Africans - or some combination of these. In fact, Peru has a large Asian community (think former President Fujimori, a Japanese Peruvian and Erasmus Wong, the guy who owns the 'Wong' chain of grociers in Lima). Hispanics as a whole have some truly beautiful combinations of all the different groups.

While I have met purely Euro-looking Hispanics and purely Indigenous Peoples looking Hispanics, etc. Many, if not most Hispanics I've met blend these different features well.

I didn't mean that as a slam.

In my experience, most hispanics, while having mixed blood, exhibit more or less one set of features. Many exhibit more, but then of course, they are not the only group that does: there is a reason that many Indians (from India), Arabs, and Mexicans can be confused for each other: that they live in areas were significant mixing has occured.


Overall I am surprised that blonde hair has done so poorly: I guess the notion that all gentlemen prefer blondes is not very acurate.

[Q Classic]

i'd like to know the ethnographic breakdown of the members on this forum. my guess is that it's majority caucasian, which yields the high preference for caucasian features.

if it were not majority caucasian, however, one could ask the sociological question as to whether or not white has become the basic notion of physical allure.

[Drake Tungsten]

Hey, I'm as Caucasian as they come and I still picked the Asian features. Stop your generalizing.

[Sava]

Originally posted by Q Cubed
i'd like to know the ethnographic breakdown of the members on this forum. my guess is that it's majority caucasian, which yields the high preference for caucasian features.

if it were not majority caucasian, however, one could ask the sociological question as to whether or not white has become the basic notion of physical allure.

Freud would say we all foster Oedipal fantasies, so therefore we find women similar to our mothers attractive. Since our mothers are no doubt the same race as ourselves, and the majority of people being caucasian, it's not a surprise we would select caucasian features.

but Freud was a coke-head... what does he know?

[GePap]

Figure: Athletic (What is "Lean"?)

Lean is basically standard: for example, kristin there would count as lean: what one looks like with enough moderate excercise to not start going above your ideal body weight: now, some people are naturally curvy (which is why this is a different choice, though curvy does not assume overweight in any way: yes, I did not include overweight as part of the choice for ideal mate, sorry to the chubbychasers). Athletic assumes clear, if not pronounced, muscle definition: what you get from being an athlete like a runner or a cyclist or so forth (muscular is for people who do muscle sculpting and wieght lifting)

[Q Classic]

Hey, I'm as Caucasian as they come and I still picked the Asian features. Stop your generalizing.

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as for what sava said, i'm asian, but born and raised in america in the south. i've seen just as many african americans as caucasians, and yet i tend to find asians and caucasians more attractive. i know fo' sho' that my momma ain't white, but what accounts for my finding caucasians attractive as a whole?

[Drake Tungsten]

Actually, the Asian fetish guys disgust me. Pathetic freaks.

I just have nothing else to look at.

[Sava]

Q Cubed: Big breastesses are usually considered a symbol of beauty, but are hardly natural caucasian features...

[GePap]

Perhaps whom we find attractive is a way for our genes to tell us: hey moron, this would be a great genetic pair! (just a thought).

I also grew up in an extremely diverse place and do find individual with more caucasian or asian features more attractive than those with black features , specially the nose ( I like thin noses, not broad noses), but of course it depends (a great set of eyes is just captivating) on the whole package.

[GePap]

Besides implants, I think bust size is increasing in general (sexual selection at work): certainly black women are more curvy than white women in a general way.

[Q Classic]

Actually, the Asian fetish guys disgust me. Pathetic freaks.

you're telling me? man. every time i run into one, it's all i can do not to try and strangle them.

Q Cubed: Big breastesses are usually considered a symbol of beauty, but are hardly natural caucasian features...

everything requires a balance. i don't like big breasts--they just have to be appropriately proportioned.

Perhaps whom we find attractive is a way for our genes to tell us: hey moron, this would be a great genetic pair! (just a thought).

it's been suggested that for this reason, women are attracted to men whose scent differs slightly but distinctly from their own father's--it's a sign that their immune system is quite sufficient, but also different enough to provide gain.
attraction is such a funny and strange thing, and is notoriously hard to peg. symmetry is beautiful, but not too much symmetry. curious, nee?

[Sava]

Well personally, I like women of all creeds and colors. I tend to like darker skin tones rather than pale ones, however. But in the end, "the one" will be someone whose personality clicks with mine.