Ex-gfs turning models after you dump them

[Pekka]

Ever happened to you? Well not exactly my either, but I just came back from grocery store and accidentally bumped into my ex-gf from,, 98? She was you know hot then and all that, but she was also 17 then, but attractive. But now? DAAAAAAAAAAAAMN! My eyes popped out I mean she's a total sex machine. I was truly.. uh oh.. I can't eve put it to words how hot she was, I mean she could have been a playboy model as far as I saw it. She was wearing _tight_ jeans and I was checking her out naturally and.. omg. One of those that you see them in street and just avoid car crash. Man, I'm so gutted, why did I dump her???!!!!

Well realistically, we wouldn't be together after all years I guess, she would have dumped me by now but.. have this ever happened to you? Does it make you angry? I'm hella angry now. I mean.. DAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn!

[Az]

*points and laughs* sucks, doesn't it? I had a somewhat similar situation in highscool. But I have no regrets. she was a bitcn.

I am surrounded by taken beautiful women, it seems. Just met my best friends hot highscool senior cousin two days ago (she did some modeling ) when he gave me a ride to Tel Aviv, she needed a ride too... to meet her "serious relationship" boyfriend who just got enlisted.

[Pekka]

Az, Tell me about it! She wasn't a b1tch back then either.. she was actually the one I still think with warm thoughts after some years. I was just stupid and immature dumping her because I got bored, arrogant that way. I figure it wouldn't have lasted to these days but still.. I kind of hit myself to the head now, I guess I deserve this .. but DAMN IT!

It seems like I've been going out with hot chicks when I was younger.. I wonder what's with that, and why I'm now NOT going out with hot chicks What did I have then that I don't have now? I keep wondering.. I have to get my mojo back, damn I 'm frustrated, I'm almost angry with myself.. I'm stupid!!

And you know, yes it sucks big time. Do you know what sucks even more? I used to hang out with his brother after we broke up (kind of weird.. hehe.. but we had more chemistry), and maybe year after that, she asked if I'd go out with her again.. and I said..... No. Strike 2.
I'm too stupid to deserve having a penis.

[Traianvs]

seeing i don't even get to have the ugly ones my answer is: no

[MichaeltheGreat]

Once they're done with you, they realize what potential they really have, and decide not to waste it anymore.

[Pekka]

MtG, true

Well I can always celebrate the fact that I slept with her Doesn't actually help much, quite the opposite!!!!!!
And you know just then when you take the courage and look your best and you go chat with them, you know trying to warm up things so that it's not obvious you spot the ring 'oh you're engaged?'.... WHY GOD WHY!?!?!?!?! *cries*..

[Az]

I used to hang out with his brother after we broke up (kind of weird.. hehe..

Is there anything we need to know?



Seriously, I feel your pain. But at least you had it great in highschool.


If she was actually a great person, then there is nothing I might say which will be able to make you feel better.

[Pekka]

Ups.. I meant HER

Yeah.. I have only started to appreciate it now. And she was nice and we were doing ok. It was me that was stupid jerk thinking I don't like her. You know, like first fight that really isn't even a fight and you're like 'it's over'. wtf? Aaaargh! I do deserve this though....... but it actually really sucks and I'm not just saying it. But I guess many of you have experienced the same thing.

Well, I'll find someone else I guess..... I'm trying not to get drunk and call her drunk saying I want to get back with her and be traditional fool doing it

[Az]

[Pekka]

What I need to do now is raise my own level personally, starting to be like a true sex machine too. This is an arms race!!! I'll make her want me back too! YEAH!!

[Pekka]

But come on folks, let's hear your own stories!

Also you can give stories about models you started dating and them turning to anna nicole smiths.

[monolith94]

Similar sort of thing happened to me with a girl called Emily... She has serious dependency and attention issues and I don't want that.

[Inverse Icarus]

[edit: i don't suppose we were officially dating, so not a GF. i was just her b!tch.]

not a model, a cheerleader.

there was this girl who was new to our highschool school (this was 9th grade), and she was downright beautiful. italian / cuban mix, long brown hair, nice skintone, stacked, had back, the works i tell you, the works!

whatever happened in her past, she was very insecure about her self, especially her looks and whether or not people would like her. hell, thats what i live for, so i comforted her about her insecurities and became her friend. we started to hang out and my friends kept saying "it doesn't look right with your arm around her". f*ck them. after about 2 months of being a friend i got a real kiss . anyway, my strategy would be my downfall. cheerleader tryouts were comming along, and she was kind of excited about it, she had always wanted to be a cheerleader, she said. i've always wanted to bang a cheerleader, i thought. so i encouragesd her to do it, she even asked me to sit through the tryouts (awesome). she made it, and i even went to one of her competitions (i didnt even knew they existed). our team got the silver and she was estatic.

then, about a week later, she's dating a _junior_ (11th grade) football player. thats 17 on 14, mind you. we stayed friends for about a year after that, slowly drifting apart, my stomach dropping whenever i saw her holding hands with the jock bastard. she would also tell me about him. about every problem she had with him. f*ck that. eventually, we stopped talking alltogether, and would just say hi to eachother in the hall. she also gave me pity dances at 2 sweet sixteens, which was nice of her. she's go a humanitarian heart. GRINDING FOR THE NERDS! WOO!

thats all.

[Az]

So, Pekka, If it is an arms race, what are your starting positions vis a vis her?

[Dis]

well maybe models for fat clothes