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OK. So I am feeling fairly good since the longest time.
I think I should date again. Or have some new friends.
SO I went ahead and asked my PT, if she'd like to go out with me. I said I am not looking for a date, but we've known each other for 3 years and she knows all my weaknesses (mentally, emotionally and physically), and I consider her my friend and would like to hang out. Go for a glass of wine, dinner, whatnot.
I actually am undecided if I want a date with her or friends hangout time. For me, I am not dating per se. If I am going to be, it will start with a friendship thing anyway. If I cannot be friends, dating won't work. She has said the same thing to me. She also kind of approached me couple of times in the past. She has told me about her dates-gone-bad and basically lots of things usually shared with friends. As have I. I even told her, in panic, that I met this Brazilian woman once, had sex, and she is stalking me (which she was, she had her friend call me to work after I blocked her from harrasing me). Only after I told her I'll call the cops on her ass did she leave me alone, she knew I meant business. So my PT called me and gave me support.
In fact she has always given me friendly support, and we've given each other advices on our personal lives. Or just opinions. I do kind of like her. I'd like her as a friend. She is NOT an airhead, and she hates being miscategorised due to having had tons of success in fitness (she's a former champion). Now, she trains people for healthy style of working out. Not fitness competitions. I was a bit troubled, but we've known each other a long time, I like her, I think she likes me, so why the hell not? It's only a glass of wine or just hanging out for a night. She suggested this weekend. Of course she's gorgeous but I would hate to lose her as a friend or PT. Rather, I'd like her as a friend. So I asked her out. Mistake or not? Your thoughts?
I think I should date again. Or have some new friends.
SO I went ahead and asked my PT, if she'd like to go out with me. I said I am not looking for a date, but we've known each other for 3 years and she knows all my weaknesses (mentally, emotionally and physically), and I consider her my friend and would like to hang out. Go for a glass of wine, dinner, whatnot.
I actually am undecided if I want a date with her or friends hangout time. For me, I am not dating per se. If I am going to be, it will start with a friendship thing anyway. If I cannot be friends, dating won't work. She has said the same thing to me. She also kind of approached me couple of times in the past. She has told me about her dates-gone-bad and basically lots of things usually shared with friends. As have I. I even told her, in panic, that I met this Brazilian woman once, had sex, and she is stalking me (which she was, she had her friend call me to work after I blocked her from harrasing me). Only after I told her I'll call the cops on her ass did she leave me alone, she knew I meant business. So my PT called me and gave me support.
In fact she has always given me friendly support, and we've given each other advices on our personal lives. Or just opinions. I do kind of like her. I'd like her as a friend. She is NOT an airhead, and she hates being miscategorised due to having had tons of success in fitness (she's a former champion). Now, she trains people for healthy style of working out. Not fitness competitions. I was a bit troubled, but we've known each other a long time, I like her, I think she likes me, so why the hell not? It's only a glass of wine or just hanging out for a night. She suggested this weekend. Of course she's gorgeous but I would hate to lose her as a friend or PT. Rather, I'd like her as a friend. So I asked her out. Mistake or not? Your thoughts?
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