WILL I BANG THIS CHICK?

[Bereta_Eder]

Oerdin is ****

He deserves his loneliness.

The drama is that he's too dumb to feel even more pain

[Bereta_Eder]

I mean, you're probably right, but care to elaborate on why?

I don't know. You're sort of a powerslave whore

Your middle of the road shtick isn't convincing anyone (let alone chicks)

[Lorizael]

I don't know what any of that means.

Anyway, we were talking the other day, and I mentioned that I play D&D, and she mentioned that another one of the astronomy undergrads also does. And I was like, man, I never learned anything about them. And she went, well, that's because you spend all your time in the TA office instead of the undergrad room. So then we joked for a bit about how maybe there's a forcefield preventing non-undergrads from entering the room.

And then a couple days later (after steeling myself up for it), I passed by the undergrad room, turned in, and did a short little mime thing where I acted like I was testing to see if there was a forcefield in front of the door and then pushed through and into the room. She was in there; she laughed. A couple other astronomy people were also in there; they were confused.

So there's that. Plus we've been chatting a bit on Facebook.

[Bereta_Eder]

I don't know what any of that means

[Bereta_Eder]

I went with the SO at a nice place by the sea and we ordered food and she was happy.

And I was saying, that's all very nice but that's not enough food (for what we have payed)


I mean the scenery was lovely and everything was great except the quanity of the food.

I said, we're not turning into ****ing germans. When we go out for food I mean FOOD.


So I went to the supermarket and bought sea food (damn it's expensive) and prepared a big ass dinner.

That was food

[Bereta_Eder]

It was the first weekend of nice weather after polar cold (that for greece it's translated to around 2 oC)


so we went to the athens port piraeus (piraetes claim it's a whole different city) and I found a parking lot right away. fortune smiled on me


We watched the sea. It hit me that I had missed the sea.

[Bereta_Eder]

you can travel europe, take part in difficult meetings with europeans and extraterrestrials (turks - joking) yet nothing is as potend and powerful as taking the SO to the sea


there are receptors on the human body. these receptors need to be filled.

[rah]

I don't know what any of that means.

Anyway, we were talking the other day, and I mentioned that I play D&D, and she mentioned that another one of the astronomy undergrads also does. And I was like, man, I never learned anything about them. And she went, well, that's because you spend all your time in the TA office instead of the undergrad room. So then we joked for a bit about how maybe there's a forcefield preventing non-undergrads from entering the room.

And then a couple days later (after steeling myself up for it), I passed by the undergrad room, turned in, and did a short little mime thing where I acted like I was testing to see if there was a forcefield in front of the door and then pushed through and into the room. She was in there; she laughed. A couple other astronomy people were also in there; they were confused.

So there's that. Plus we've been chatting a bit on Facebook.

Looks like good progress. Building up to companionship...on the path to partnership.
How else to explain laughing at that joke. She sounds like a keeper.

[Bereta_Eder]

It just hit me.

You understand me because I speak enligh (flemish get excited)

What if I swicthed to french. Aucun espece d'enfouere peut me comprent

Or greek Ακομα χειροτερα

[Lorizael]

WILL I BANG THIS CHICK CONTINUES

So we continue to talk on campus and are also talking occasionally online and via text. A few weeks back, I asked her if she wanted to come to a board game day with me and my friends. She said yes, but then the day of sent me a text saying she had been around people all day yesterday and had crashed at a friend's house and needed a day to herself, and could she could come to the next game day instead. I said of course.

Later that week, I asked her by text if she wanted to get some lunch. She said she was busy that day but suggested we do the next day instead. We did. Talked for over an hour. It was pleasant.

Last week, I asked her if she wanted to go hiking on some nearby trails on Sunday. She said yes, but then almost immediately added that she already had plans Friday and Saturday and might need Sunday to do homework, so she'd get back to me. Later that week, I found out my friends wanted to do D&D on Sunday, so I sent her a text asking if this weekend would be better given that she was iffy on that weekend. She said yes, it would.

Flash forward to today. We're talking in the office and she says she's really sorry but can she push the hiking to next weekend. She's got a test coming next week that she's freaking out about and needs Sunday to study. I can't do next weekend because that's my brother's wedding. She says, what about that Friday evening before the wedding? I say no, because I'm working then. She says, okay, well maybe I can make this Sunday work... I'll let you know this weekend depending on how much I'm freaking out. I say okay. The conversation continues on to a new topic.

So what's going on here? She is genuinely busy. She's TAing a class and has a very math and physics heavy semester. But is that all that's going on? Am I being yanked around? Is she actually interested? Monkeys.

[Ming]

It sounds like you have gone from totally passive to totally aggressive. Somewhere in the middle is probably more appropriate.
Take what you can get and simply deal with both of your heavy schedules. If she really wanted to blow you off, she wouldn't be trying to reschedule stuff...
Try to be understanding, and don't stalk her

Or you can totally back off and play hard to get and see if she approaches you with suggestions. But I think you are better off just toning it down a bit and trying to work with both of your schedules.

[Lorizael]

Huh. It did not occur to me that my behavior could ever be construed as aggressive. Creepy and weird, yeah, but not aggressive. Will keep that in mind. I think I've been easygoing and understanding with her about rescheduling and being busy and all that, but I don't know.

[Ming]

While you are being understanding and easygoing about rescheduling... here you are posting if we think you are being yanked around.
What I was trying to say was... DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. CHILL. GO WITH THE FLOW. Don't put negative thoughts in your head.

Nothing she has done indicates she want's you to back off or leave her alone. So just be patient.

[Dinner]

What he said.

[ricketyclik]

Easier said than done when the juices are flowing.

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