I'm friends with a married couple in my writing group. When they had their first kid, mom had severe complications during pregnancy that I think were something like what happened to Kate Middleton. Anyway, they didn't want to risk that for their second kid, so they adopted. The adoption took about 4 years to finalize, because they were adopting a little kid from South Korea. It was quite the hassle and had pretty much been the focus of their lives the last couple of years. They just got him a couple months ago. And he just died yesterday.
I don't know the details, except that he had some health problem that involved him being flown by helicopter to the hospital, where he was in PICU for about a day.
I care a great deal about these friends of mine. And I feel absolutely heartbroken for them. It's pretty much all I've been thinking about the last day. But I have absolutely no idea how to express this sentiment to them. I don't know if there's something I'm supposed to do or say, and everything I can think of seems either thoroughly inadequate or fake. And I'm worried that if I'm not able to do or say the right thing, they'll think less of me for not supporting them during what is probably the worst moment of their lives.
(Also, **** like this makes me feel guilty about being depressed. But that's not really the issue here.)
I don't know the details, except that he had some health problem that involved him being flown by helicopter to the hospital, where he was in PICU for about a day.
I care a great deal about these friends of mine. And I feel absolutely heartbroken for them. It's pretty much all I've been thinking about the last day. But I have absolutely no idea how to express this sentiment to them. I don't know if there's something I'm supposed to do or say, and everything I can think of seems either thoroughly inadequate or fake. And I'm worried that if I'm not able to do or say the right thing, they'll think less of me for not supporting them during what is probably the worst moment of their lives.
(Also, **** like this makes me feel guilty about being depressed. But that's not really the issue here.)
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