Ahh, the single life.

[Dinner]

I'm sitting here eating crappy Chinese take out, getting drunk on locally made beer, looking at the hardwood floors I hate but which my ex made me buy, and feeling bitter about life. The whole weekend has been about like this. It's rather sad and pathetic.

[Dinner]

To top it off I'm not even getting laid. Life sucks though maybe a vacation might make me feel better or at least forget about how much I hate my life right now.

[giblets]

Locally made beer? You idiot

[Dinner]

There are some 80 local breweries, many award wining in national contests, but I suppose you are right. Reg-**** thinks it is never good to buy local so therefore I should avoid local producers even when they have an obvious natural advantage (like growing fruits or veggies in a climate where they grow best year round).

[Imran Siddiqui]

I'm sitting here eating crappy Chinese take out, getting drunk on locally made beer, looking at the hardwood floors I hate but which my ex made me buy, and feeling bitter about life. The whole weekend has been about like this. It's rather sad and pathetic.

How long have you been single?

[Hauldren Collider]

I'm sorry to hear that Oerdin

[Dinner]

How long have you been single?

It's been in the process for several months though really only truly "real" for the last two months. I feel pathetic to be in my mid 30's and have a relationship I thought was going towards marriage fall apart. Then I thought it would be amicable, then I thought maybe we might work through it, and now she apparently has gotten a new wind under her sails and has moved in with her new boyfriend. I know this too shall pass but it's not feeling so great right now especially since she was unemployed for the last two years and I was the sole bread winner paying for everything and a bit of gratitude would be nice. I mean coming over just to argue about house plants and home furnishings when I paid for both? Especially since she moved out and abandoned both? WTF?

I told her to take them, I don't care, and I'll just buy new ones, I can afford it, but part of me wants to tell her to f' off and get her new boy toy to buy her this ****.

[The Mad Monk]

Sorry to hear, but welcome back, you've been missed.

[Dinner]

Thanks, man. You've always been nicer to me than I deserved.

[Uncle Sparky]

The tradition with ex's furniture and other crap they leave you you don't want to keep is to move it to the curb. If you want to be nice about it, let her know its there, once you move it out.

[Hauldren Collider]

It's been in the process for several months though really only truly "real" for the last two months. I feel pathetic to be in my mid 30's and have a relationship I thought was going towards marriage fall apart. Then I thought it would be amicable, then I thought maybe we might work through it, and now she apparently has gotten a new wind under her sails and has moved in with her new boyfriend. I know this too shall pass but it's not feeling so great right now especially since she was unemployed for the last two years and I was the sole bread winner paying for everything and a bit of gratitude would be nice. I mean coming over just to argue about house plants and home furnishings when I paid for both? Especially since she moved out and abandoned both? WTF?

I told her to take them, I don't care, and I'll just buy new ones, I can afford it, but part of me wants to tell her to f' off and get her new boy toy to buy her this ****.

That's really rough. I wish there was some advice or aphorism I could give but as a 19 year old I got nothing.

[dannubis]

I told her to take them, I don't care, and I'll just buy new ones, I can afford it, but part of me wants to tell her to f' off and get her new boy toy to buy her this ****.

She will have to now...

And keep your chin up. You went to rougher water already I seem to recall.

[rah]

Enjoy the single life while you can. Believe it or not, it won't last that long.

[Ming]

Enjoy the single life while you can. Believe it or not, it won't last that long.

True enough...

While yes, you could be feeling low and miserable, but on the other hand, you're FREE.
Go out, have some fun... have some meaningless but great sex. Party with the guys.
ENJOY SINGLE LIFE WHILE YOU CAN.

Make a positive out of this negative.

[MikeH]

have some meaningless but great sex. Party with the guys.

I am coming to realise that literally every poster here is gay.