Originally posted by Kidicious
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Without thoughts we wouldn't do anything except ad hoc action. (which would be worse).
For young men to grow into a healthy sexual relation they need to have fantasies about sex first. And also to be in a healthy sexual relation you need to have fantasies about sex. Men and women who stop fantasizing about having sex with each other will eventually stop having sex with each other.
BTW, this doesn't only work for sex but for everything.
Sports players who say that they never dreamed of making this goal in the final match of the world championship do not only lie, they're also crazy, because dreaming and imagining important moments often in advance helps people to perform better during those moments.
And since sex is not unhealthy or bad or evil, but rather good, cool and nice to have, I see no problems with fantasizing about sex. Desiring the wife of your friend is not good, because true desire will turn into action if the opportunity occurs. And that would not be very good for both your relation with your wife nor for your relation with your friend. And thus it will ruin your life.
) can be justified and explained using ideas that have been honed over the last two thousand years by some amazing thinkers, but none of it paints a coherent picture when its all put together. Theres always this massive list of contradictions, and things that sound plausible but really don't make much sense when put under a hard light. God creates us, but deliberately creates us as imperfect, then makes us lust and desire things we are then told we shouldn't have, and wants us to love him despite us being his creation anyway? Shouldn't the truth of something so fundamental be something that doesn't need complex explanation?
(sorry..
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