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    Do you have weird job problems? I have.

    I've been to two interviews in a very short period of time. They've been all nice positions. But today was special because they looked for a person with the exact same experience that I have. The fit could not be better skill wise.

    So they call me, it turns out I'm the first one to be interviewed. Also, they will go to their Christmas holiday's tomorrow, so I guess I was the only one. Their head of HR basically just asked me how much I would ask for salary and I said what I expected to get. Because it's not a private business, I know how much they pay so I said the maximum of that (which is double what I can pay myself as an entrepreneur). So the head of HR said "can do!" basically and marked it down, "this can be arranged" I think was his exact words.

    My interview lasted 2 hours. A nice chat, we got along great with the would-be-my-boss. But the would-be-my-boss got back to one issue at least 5 or 6 times. He asked me why I want to join them, because I'd get paid more in the private sector. I explained that money is not my biggest motivator, I find the organization interesting from my POV (which I honestly do), and that I like the kind of work they have to offer me, the exact work is something I know best and I would like to do it in a bigger play field, which they would offer. I've been a researcher, I've been an entrepreneur, it's not like I value money the most, and I've come to a solution that I need this job and out of other organization (government), this was the least regulated, as in least restricted, meaning that we could possibly do things and try things without the inferno one would go through when trying to budget/etc/etc with any other government organization.

    So he came back to me, "but you know, this would be a starting salary, if you are ambitious, you can always advance from this position. I don't understand your motivation, why would you want to work for us?". I kept saying around same things with different words. He wouldn't believe me basically I figure. It was a bit frustrating, he was a nice man and I think we got along well, but we had broken communication, I tried to say listen, I want the job, OK? He kept saying OK but why, and then on top of it (here's the weird part), he kept upping the offer. He then said "This is like a mold, you could mold our playing field" and I was like yes, that is excellent, and he went on "you know you would be a supervisor to many our people", sure, OK, sounds good. "This would be a great case for you, if you have your sight set somewhere else in the future, you could say you did this and that in here, like a great case", and I was like yes, sounds great, I'm going for the longer haul now though, I want to do something and see the results and grow, not jump around too much. He just kept upping the offer, I didn't get it. Last he even said "I can get you the resources you want, I can do that, we have better budgets already and I got my hands all over it".

    It is as if this guy is almost desperate to get me, and I'm desperate to say OK!! It was good the first time, that's why I was happy to come to this interview... if I was not interested, I would not be here.

    Maybe he thought I was making a lot of money as it is, which is of course not true. They even said, the both of them, that it's not a problem should I want to keep being with my company _at the same time_. Usually you just don't bring it up during the interview too much, but they already green lighted it, saying that sure, you could do some side business and consulting - of course, we pay you so little. Seriously, it might sound funny but it isn't. First of all, I'm kind of desperate about my economic situation and it'll get a whole lot worse in few months. If I got the job, I would actually make the most money I ever had, on a steady basis. I could pay off all my credit, buy some stuff we need and some fun as well, and save the rest. Just from the first 3 months salary! We could get holidays, we could travel somewhere with the family, this very next summer. Important things, and less actual work than I have to now do.

    Needless to say this would be very important. So while it's amusing, I truly hope I get the job and not that stuff where "but we can't keep you motivated". Not being able to pay bills in the future motivates me. Forget that, the job does motivate me. I don't know what else I could have done or said. They liked me and thought I was a great fit skill wise, but the motivation thing bothered the would-be-boss. Not that I wouldn't be because I would, but I couldn't prove it to him in a way that he would also believe me.

    I just can't believe it if they are going to interview others (since they haven't and didn't plan to) in January if they thought they are not able to motivate me. Professionals motivate themselves.
    In da butt.
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    I've had a few weird interviews. In China, I was meeting a former mentee of my school's dean. I was just planning to talk to him about the business there and get some insight. He spent most of the time trying to sell a job to me just like your guy, Pekka. Later when I expressed more concrete interest in the position, I never heard from him again. He wouldn't respond to my emails or phone calls. I either chalk this up to Chinese weirdness or he performed a background check on me and discovered that my penis is not as big as I claim it is on my resume.

    When I was younger I applied for this job at a small private research lab. I walk in and it's a pretty ****ty place. I can't imagine that they did any serious work there. If I could remember the name, I'd look to see if they were still in business. Anyway, the owner was completely full of himself. He thought he was on the cutting edge of research and knew better than anyone else. The entire interview was of him analyzing my life and basically dressing me down because he thought he knew how to best run my life. I guess applying to work at his place was an indication that I was making bad decisions. So I just let him finish and waited until I could leave. It was obvious he wasn't going to hire me. He didn't ask me a single question about the job. Then he hands me his mail and tells me to stuff in it a mailbox on my way out. At least one of them appeared to be a bill. To this day I regret not just tossing that stuff in a nearby dumpster. The ****ing douche.
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    • #3
      Originally posted by DaShi View Post
      I've had a few weird interviews. In China, I was meeting a former mentee of my school's dean. I was just planning to talk to him about the business there and get some insight. He spent most of the time trying to sell a job to me just like your guy, Pekka. Later when I expressed more concrete interest in the position, I never heard from him again. He wouldn't respond to my emails or phone calls. I either chalk this up to Chinese weirdness or he performed a background check on me and discovered that my penis is not as big as I claim it is on my resume.

      When I was younger I applied for this job at a small private research lab. I walk in and it's a pretty ****ty place. I can't imagine that they did any serious work there. If I could remember the name, I'd look to see if they were still in business. Anyway, the owner was completely full of himself. He thought he was on the cutting edge of research and knew better than anyone else. The entire interview was of him analyzing my life and basically dressing me down because he thought he knew how to best run my life. I guess applying to work at his place was an indication that I was making bad decisions. So I just let him finish and waited until I could leave. It was obvious he wasn't going to hire me. He didn't ask me a single question about the job. Then he hands me his mail and tells me to stuff in it a mailbox on my way out. At least one of them appeared to be a bill. To this day I regret not just tossing that stuff in a nearby dumpster. The ****ing douche.
      Did you ever discover why this thing happened to you in China? It is an odd situation to be in, and it isn't (like one could assume) a comfortable one. Someone is clearly not happy with the situation when they try to sell it harder. (I hope I get the job but I think I won't actually get it, which is unfortunate).

      The other story, wow. What a douche indeed! Sometimes it makes you think if there really are people like that out there... but there are. The rule of "if you can imagine it, it must/can/might exist" is certainly true. What a tool... It sort of sucks these days when some recruiters clearly have like a... umm, wrong and right answers, and when you say the wrong thing, nothing can overcome that. It's like if you list 10 things that you're good in, and 1 out of 10 isn't too impressive, that's the one they seem to remember, some of them.

      But back to the China guy, yeah, I don't know what happened there with you but something similar happened to me. It's definitely not a good sign on their part, that they would feel the urge and necessity to go on sort of defense/up the ante-mode when there is no need and you're actually interested in it in the first place. I think it would be a mistake to think that you're doing good in that situation, you should be thinking about how to make that person understand your motives better and what you're trying to convey. I think I failed in that. I don't know if you failed in it as well or why the guy went off like that. And researcher types, if they're know-it-all types, and have egos, that's one of the most annoying types of human breed I've ever come across.... they should be all just lined up and shot against the wall.
      In da butt.
      "Do not worry if others do not understand you. Instead worry if you do not understand others." - Confucius
      THE UNDEFEATED SUPERCITIZEN w:4 t:2 l:1 (DON'T ASK!)
      "God is dead" - Nietzsche. "Nietzsche is dead" - God.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Pekka View Post
        Did you ever discover why this thing happened to you in China? It is an odd situation to be in, and it isn't (like one could assume) a comfortable one. Someone is clearly not happy with the situation when they try to sell it harder. (I hope I get the job but I think I won't actually get it, which is unfortunate).
        I expect either his project never reached the phase where he would need me or he hired a Chinese person for less than 1/4th the cost.

        The other story, wow. What a douche indeed! Sometimes it makes you think if there really are people like that out there... but there are. The rule of "if you can imagine it, it must/can/might exist" is certainly true. What a tool... It sort of sucks these days when some recruiters clearly have like a... umm, wrong and right answers, and when you say the wrong thing, nothing can overcome that. It's like if you list 10 things that you're good in, and 1 out of 10 isn't too impressive, that's the one they seem to remember, some of them.

        But back to the China guy, yeah, I don't know what happened there with you but something similar happened to me. It's definitely not a good sign on their part, that they would feel the urge and necessity to go on sort of defense/up the ante-mode when there is no need and you're actually interested in it in the first place. I think it would be a mistake to think that you're doing good in that situation, you should be thinking about how to make that person understand your motives better and what you're trying to convey. I think I failed in that. I don't know if you failed in it as well or why the guy went off like that. And researcher types, if they're know-it-all types, and have egos, that's one of the most annoying types of human breed I've ever come across.... they should be all just lined up and shot against the wall.
        Well, some people just aren't good interviewers. That may have been what happened in your case. The guy simply didn't know what he was doing.
        “As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
        "Capitalism ho!"

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