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[Lancer]

Lancer isn't "in the loop" in regards to the decisions Net and I make about our future. I think it should be obvious enough as to why that is.

Net and I are living our lives the way we have chosen together. Net's immediate family is ok with what we have chosen. To Lancer this means I must have lied to Net and her family, then manipulated them into not getting mad at me for it (thus "turning them against him"). Not only is it insulting to me, but to Net and her family as well. They are not sheep to be herded around by the nearest foreigner as Lancer seems to think.

That aside, I honestly believe that Lancer wants to help his family. I hope in the future he can see how online histrionics and posting personal details without consent are not beneficial towards that cause.

I'm still waiting for an answer as to whether Net's paperwork will be done soon. Will she or will she not be going to the US as you promised to your fiance or were you lying through your teeth to her?

I have no clue why you think that I think the family has turned against me. They have not. Nor why you think Net is insulted by my words, I doubt that very much.

I'm very happy to hear that you are paying Net's father P3000 a week. That's very, very, very, ultra very, generous. I also hear that you are giving a very, very, very, ultra very generous allowance to Net.

Did you say something about manipulative? I didn't quite get that.

That could explain why you haven't a clue about the truth of their understanding. Or maybe I don't, I have no idea.

If I were them I'd take the bait and leave the hook. That is what you appear to me to be, a hook.

Until you are ready to be honest to me, I will continue advising the family as I have when I introduced them to you, as I did when they got to know you, as I did when you started down this path and as I do when it turned blatant. You assume they listen to me less these days, you may be wrong.

Will you finally, finally, finally, answer to me the question of your promise to Net about her dream to go to the US? Was it a blatant lie?

[chequita guevara]

Lancer, you suck as a human being and a man and an American.

[KrazyHorse]

Che, there is nothing symbolic about holy communion.

[Lancer]

Che, you are a mindless venomous snake spitting the same vile crap as the rest of them. It is totally without reason and meaningless to me. Until someone here comes up with a reasoned point of view I see no point in replying.

I gave thousands to the poor last year, did you, you commie leftist? I really doubt it. Sure feels all touchy feely to be a commie though, doesn't it? Yeah, as long as it doesn't cost anything out of your wallet.

[Wezil]

Will you finally, finally, finally, answer to me the question of your promise to Net about her dream to go to the US? Was it a blatant lie?

What right have you to demand this answer? The "promise" wasn't made to you.

[Jon Miller]

Lancer if he marries her (as he should, assuming everything is good), than there will be little problem for her to come to the US whenever they want.

They can choose that, not you. If Aeson wants to stay in the Philipines, and everything is good, why would she want to come to the US?

And did she or her family ask you to bring this up here, among people who are not so close to Aeson? (Although we have known you both for a while) I mean these are quite personal details, you should just go talk to them, not on the forum.

JM

[Lancer]

If I don't, will you pay if he abandons her like Safronia's husband abandoned her? Will you par for her life when no other man will have to do with her here since she's been married? Will you pay to educate her kids? You put $60,000 in a bank account in her name and I'll give this up. Otherwise I will keep bringing the truth to this discussion. That actually might not be enough.

When I involved myself in Aeson's life I helped him to meet her. I advised Net that this was a nice guy. He is a nice guy, got a good hammock, nice veggies, plays with kids and everything. But that doesn't mean I'm going to stop advising Net. I was doing so for well over a year before they met. Now that family is rolling in it, that's great! But I still advise her not to marry a liar, if he lied about the paperwork which is long overdue. For some reason he doesn't tell me he's got her approved after all this time. For some reason I haven't seen Net's approval letter. You think I'm going to stop advising her when things have gone to hell? This is when she needs me most.

Where is that paperwork Aeson? Where is that paperwork Aeson? Helllooooo!

[Wezil]

Why is it your responsibility what happens? Oh yeah, because you helped facilitate it...

Do you not see why people have the impression they have Lancer?

[Lancer]

Lancer if he marries her (as he should, assuming everything is good), than there will be little problem for her to come to the US whenever they want.

They can choose that, not you. If Aeson wants to stay in the Philipines, and everything is good, why would she want to come to the US?

And did she or her family ask you to bring this up here, among people who are not so close to Aeson? (Although we have known you both for a while) I mean these are quite personal details, you should just go talk to them, not on the forum.

JM

No, you have no understanding of the immigration process. Have you not read what happened to Safronia? I really don't want that for Net. If there's anything I can do to stop it I will. If she marries Aeson in the US I'm all for it. In the Philippines, its a trap.

Aeson, where is that paperwork???

[Lancer]

Why is it your responsibility what happens? Oh yeah, because you helped facilitate it...

Do you not see why people have the impression they have Lancer?

Rich western spoiled brats mean nothing to me. Dolores's cousin does.

Aeson, paperwork? Answer as to whether you lied to you beloved fiance please? Thanks.

[chequita guevara]

Che, you are a mindless venomous snake spitting the same vile crap as the rest of them. It is totally without reason and meaningless to me. Until someone here comes up with a reasoned point of view I see no point in replying.

I gave thousands to the poor last year, did you, you commie leftist? I really doubt it. Sure feels all touchy feely to be a commie though, doesn't it? Yeah, as long as it doesn't cost anything out of your wallet.

Not really. They do it for fun. I wrote what I wrote because I mean it. Over the years you've made constant vile attacks on American women, whom, the rest of us seem to get along just fine with. You didn't want a partner, you wanted a slave, so you had to go abroad to find a woman who would bust her ass being a servant, because American women aren't slaves anymore.

There are a few more disgusting people than you in this forum, but none come to mind off the top of my head.

And I gave thousands of dollars of free work last year ... so bite my shiny metal ass. Now if you don't mind, I have to go get ready to give platelets at the blood center, so a little girl with leukemia gets to live a little while longer while they look for a marrow doner.

[chequita guevara]

And, dumbass, you can be abandoned in the U.S. just the same.

[Wezil]

Rich western spoiled brats mean nothing to me. Dolores's cousin does.

Aeson, paperwork? Answer as to whether you lied to you beloved fiance please? Thanks.

I'll take that as a "no", you just don't see it.

[Lancer]

Yes you can. Have you recently made a post Che without an insult in it? However if you are abandoned in the US you can still get a job paying more than $3 a day.

Besides, I offered Aeson and Net when they got to the US a free place to live and earn money to help her family and themselves. While that offer is off the table for Aeson, it would still definitely be available to Net should he abandon her there.

These options are not available in the Philippines, just as they were not available to Safronia. Do you get it?

Aeson, where is Net's paperwork?

[Lancer]

Not really. They do it for fun. I wrote what I wrote because I mean it. Over the years you've made constant vile attacks on American women, whom, the rest of us seem to get along just fine with. You didn't want a partner, you wanted a slave, so you had to go abroad to find a woman who would bust her ass being a servant, because American women aren't slaves anymore.

There are a few more disgusting people than you in this forum, but none come to mind off the top of my head.

And I gave thousands of dollars of free work last year ... so bite my shiny metal ass. Now if you don't mind, I have to go get ready to give platelets at the blood center, so a little girl with leukemia gets to live a little while longer while they look for a marrow doner.

I'm glad you give to help the poor Che. I'm very glad you help a leukemia victim. I congratlate you on that. Now why are you not willing to congratulate me in the same manner? Are you still capable of saying something nice when someone you hate gives thousands to help the poor?

Please link to these horrible comments about American women, thanks. I think you'll find nothing too terribly bad, though I have had frustrations. Che, can you not step out of the roll you're in? You seem a slave to negativity, why? While you are at it, why did this happen to the whole forum? Its like someone put pods under your beds and you are all taken over by something vile.

Zkrib brought something like this up to me today and it struck me as spot on.

Aeson, where is the paperwork that you promised to your fiance you would get for her?