how to ask this question

[Agathon]

I've got kids in my practice who have Asperger's. Ask yoursellf this, can you spend ten minutes with her without desperately wishing you were somewhere else? If not, she's probably not Asperger's.

Sounds like half of Poly.

[Kuciwalker]

Uh, guys, aren't autism and Asperger's very different things? She's nothing like any of the (actual, vs self-diagnosed) aspies I've met.

[Kuciwalker]

The Correct way to ask is "Will you marry me" which is clearly superior to the Phrase "Do you want to marry me".

thank you

[MrFun]

Oh for God's sake. There are a bunch of people who would like to be considered high functioning autistics who aren't. It's the same crap as people who pretend they are bisexual and aren't.

Any mental disease that has apparently cool or positive aspects to it along with exclusivity is subject to people wanting or pretending to have it. It's the worst kind of trendy health stupidity.

This is nothing more than the equivalent of emo kids who pretend they suffer from depression because they want to make themselves seem more interesting to others.

I'm not sure how bisexuality is a mental disease.

[Agathon]

I'm not sure how bisexuality is a mental disease.

People who continue to read threads often discover new and relevant information.

I already apologized for my less than clear remark, but I don't feel the need to Minitruth my remarks and make other posts look irrelevant.

[MrFun]

I wasn't being serious with my post. I just wanted to tease you about how you stated it. Hence the winking smilie.

[Kuciwalker]

All of the responses in this thread are pretty much exactly what I would have expected from each of the posters.

This is still true.

[Agathon]

I wasn't being serious with my post. I just wanted to tease you about how you stated it. Hence the winking smilie.

Sorry, I didn't understand because I've never known you to make a joke, other than the irony implicit in your nick.

[Agathon]

This is still true.

Were you conducting an experiment to see if we had been replaced with impostors or possessed by aliens?

[Solomwi]

This thread is 40 posts in with nobody questioning the premise that Kuci has a girlfriend. Our little guy is all grown up.

[Kuciwalker]

xpost

Not really. I'm just a little surprised how utterly predictable everyone here is :P

[Dauphin]

Is there any possible way to confirm this without committing a massive faux pas?

Commit the faux pas. The truth will set you free.

[Kontiki]

Am I being predictable by saying that if she's going out with you, a mental illenss is a given?

And, BTW, I can't believe no one else has used that one yet.

[Gibsie]

And take pictures... with sound!

[Kuciwalker]

And take pictures... with sound!

OK, this one I didn't expect.